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25-01-2007, 10:59 PM
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| | Experienced SGClubber Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 8,276 Gender: 
Total SGC$: 964.87 | How to Listen If You Like to Talk [MUST READ] Something to share which my lecturer share to my level in mass lecture. I find this really meaningful and useful for most people.
If you're outgoing, you may define listening as the gap before you talk again.
Instead, practice truly listening while the other person talk. Focus on her words. Don't jump in after every sentence. Think before opening your mouth.
On the other hand, if you're reserved, you may spend listening time fretting over how to respond.
Relax. Just listen. When you have something to say, say it. Otherwise, let body language and verbal reaction shoe the person you're listening. | Quote: | | | | | 'There are two types of people in the world. THose who come in the room and say, 'Well, here I am!' and those who come into a room and say, 'Ah, there you are." -Frederick L. Collins. | | | | | To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
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25-01-2007, 11:05 PM
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Total SGC$: 964.87 | The Politics of LISTENING. Political views aside, you'll probably agree that Bill and Hillary Clinton are both cogent communicators.
Their secret is listening to constituents, then responding to what they hear.
Bill Clinton won crucial town-hall debates in his first presidential campaign by leaving the podium, moving toward his audience and carefully listening as citizens asked questions. He then responded directly to questioners.
Many New Yorkers considered Hillary Clinton an outsider when she first ran for Senate. To overcome those criticisms, she organized listening tours, traveling across the state to learn the needs and opinions of voters.
Political tactics? Absolutely. But the Clintons' listening skills give them insights and ideas to create winning campaigns. | Quote: | | | | | "Most people will not really listen or pay attention to your point of view until they become convinced you have heard and appreciate theirs." -Ralph Nicholas | | | | | To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
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25-01-2007, 11:07 PM
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| | Experienced SGClubber Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 8,276 Gender: 
Total SGC$: 964.87 | I feel this is really useful, especially for those who always talk without thinking. I think you should know who you are. If you want people to respect you and listen to you, do the same to others. I always belive in karmas. What you do, there'll always be in return. Appreciate and treat others nicely, and you will get the same in return.
Hope you guys learn something from here. =) To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. |
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25-01-2007, 11:14 PM
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| | Peach ^^ Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 18,890 Gender: 
Total SGC$: 1,137.55 | yes, it is extremely useful.. thanks ryan for sharing..
sometimes it is hard to put it in practise... but i learn something too..
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25-01-2007, 11:18 PM
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Total SGC$: 824.81 | haha. wow. thanx XX for sharinn dis.
true ehs. think b4 u talk. ^^
ii get wad u all mean. :devil2: To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. 棒棒堂 Lollipop Fanclub To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. |
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25-01-2007, 11:43 PM
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| | Chocolate Cookie Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 9,263 Gender: 
Total SGC$: 4,632.32 | This is good info O.O i should really learn it.. Thanks for showing it to us ^^
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26-01-2007, 09:47 AM
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| | Piak piak Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 2,869 Gender:  Location: Bedok Reservoir
Total SGC$: 0 | My signature in my email......... By Silence, I Hear Other Men's Imperfection & Conceal My Own It is not the place, nor the condition, but the mind alone that can make anyone happy or miserable.
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26-01-2007, 10:01 AM
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Total SGC$: 721.85 | ok nw i better stay less talkative. hahaha |
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26-01-2007, 12:20 PM
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26-01-2007, 12:50 PM
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