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Old 06-02-2008, 01:18 AM   #1 (permalink)
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How do you know if the guy is just flirting with you or really like you?feel free to share your comments,
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Old 06-02-2008, 01:33 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Default Re: How do you know if the guy is just flirting with you or really like you

Well let me share my guy point of view...

Normally, guys will only flirt with girls that they think looks ok or pretty to them... therefore, if a guy flirts with you it probably means that he thinks you looks alright...
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Old 06-02-2008, 01:35 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Default Re: How do you know if the guy is just flirting with you or really like you

how to know ar? see if his commitment, see how much he will go for u,


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Old 06-02-2008, 01:38 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Default Re: How do you know if the guy is just flirting with you or really like you

if your looks are average and above or you're fun to hang out with then high chance the guy is just flirting or friends with you.

as for liking, gotta observe what the guy willing to do for you and not for other girls.
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Old 06-02-2008, 01:39 AM   #5 (permalink)
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You won't know because you can never see thru their mind...


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Old 06-02-2008, 01:40 AM   #6 (permalink)
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A good method is find a strong competitor for him... let him prove himself.

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Old 06-02-2008, 08:51 AM   #7 (permalink)
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LOLx!

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Old 06-02-2008, 08:56 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Guys like someone when they start thinking more for the girl they like?


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Old 06-02-2008, 08:57 AM   #9 (permalink)
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but the thing is sometimes we girls don know. Must give hints ma

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Old 06-02-2008, 08:58 AM   #10 (permalink)
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Ask u guys here, if a guy says he dress to attract you, what does it means?
if a guy says he only attract the right girl to the girl, what does it means?
is this flirting?

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Old 06-02-2008, 09:33 AM   #11 (permalink)
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Ask u guys here, if a guy says he dress to attract you, what does it means?
if a guy says he only attract the right girl to the girl, what does it means?
is this flirting?
Ans 2 part 1 -- it means that d guy takes ur comments n views seriously ... wat u say r impt 2 him ... it may imply that he likes u ... or it may just mean he treats u as a gd fren n hence value ur views

Ans 2 part 2 -- dun really understand wat u r trying 2 ask ... but sometimes casual remarks by guys meant 2 create conversations may be misconstrued as flirting

u really need 2 know d guy's character 1st ... e.g. if he is 1 who is caring n sensitive in nature ... many things he does may misled gals ard him
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Old 06-02-2008, 09:38 AM   #12 (permalink)
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how to know ar? see if his commitment, see how much he will go for u,
agree ... I propose that a further chk 4 triangulation purpose 2 ensure u dun make wrong assumptions ... observe how d guy treats others ... esp gals ... if u notice he is treating u very differently ... likely chance he likes u ...
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Old 06-02-2008, 09:40 AM   #13 (permalink)
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yea one important way to tell is observe how he treat u compare to other girls, if he like u, he will go all the way to do something to make u happy .
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Ask u guys here, if a guy says he dress to attract you, what does it means?
if a guy says he only attract the right girl to the girl, what does it means?
is this flirting?
Ans 1 : He wants attention from you, shows he is serious of something. prob he like u

Ans 2 : Hmm.I think he is flirting.but i don't get your question >< abit blur coz in the morning lol.


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Old 06-02-2008, 09:44 AM   #15 (permalink)
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woo...

I think if he wants to spend alot of time with u (like keep asking u out) den its obvious he likes u..

By the way, if your guy friend flirts with u, does it mean he likes u or he juz teasing with u? Friends also can flirt??

Yahz its better to not just take what he says but observe his actions most of the time for more clues. Sometimes guys can give mixed signals too.


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Old 06-02-2008, 12:20 PM   #16 (permalink)
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Ans 2 part 1 -- it means that d guy takes ur comments n views seriously ... wat u say r impt 2 him ... it may imply that he likes u ... or it may just mean he treats u as a gd fren n hence value ur views

Ans 2 part 2 -- dun really understand wat u r trying 2 ask ... but sometimes casual remarks by guys meant 2 create conversations may be misconstrued as flirting

u really need 2 know d guy's character 1st ... e.g. if he is 1 who is caring n sensitive in nature ... many things he does may misled gals ard him
ok, this guy is my ex, broke up for 1 month already. He celebrated my bday with me last week. I dunno what's he thinking by saying all those to me.
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Old 06-02-2008, 03:16 PM   #17 (permalink)
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Default Re: How do you know if the guy is just flirting with you or really like you

hard to tell bah ask him directly if u can it is the best way

to fall in love is always easy
to start a relationship is always simple
to build it, is always tough
to maintain it, is 'better said than done'
to break off, is 'easier said than done'
to remain friends after u broke off, is never possible
to forget the memories is 'always doing but never succeeding'
to heal the pain within is hard and tough and never near simple
but one has to try to heal your