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Old 28-04-2007, 12:44 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default How to Ask a girl to be your Girlfriend

for gers , how your boyfriend ask you to be his girlfriend ?


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Old 28-04-2007, 01:48 PM   #2 (permalink)
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ffirst obviously u have to be certain, she likes you to a certain degree, and not as a friend de like.
this is very important, no use asking someone whom u know confirm dun like u de. waste time mah, and sometimes will scare her away somemore.

Different girls, different ways of askin, different YOU, different ways again.
for TS, and those who are shy shy type, generally the more quiet guys la-
if u are certain she likes u enough to be your girlfriend, i will be assuming u both have already been in constant contact, like sms, call la,this kind, and am already comfortable with going out with each other AS FRIENDS. den i suggest you can either invite her out for a dinner, and ask her when u finish are about to finish ur meal, or when u are sending her off to the station or wad.

anyway, why must ask in the end is because, imagine she tells u she needs to think about it, den u ask her at the beginning of the meal/beginning of the date, it'll be damm awkward after that okays! if she need time to think, respect it lor.

or you can write a letter to her, telling her of ur feelings,how comfortable it is being with her, at the end of everything, say you will get back to her again [dun say i wait for ur reply, cause girls lei, if she accept dont tell me she must go to u and say I ACCEPT U. quite sia suey, no one will want to do that],
remember to tell her you are not pushing her, and that you hope even if both cannot be a couple, u all can still continue to be good friends.
NOTE: it is OKAY if she tells you she needs to think about it for a while. seriously, its better to think, than to hurry without hesitation, and then regret later.

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FOR THE THICK SKIN PPL like my bf, those not shy one,

1. pester on the phone [my bf did tt]
it might be abit rude to ask on the phone, but oh well. if the guy pester like mad, and the girl does like him, she will agree one. And u have to ask in a persuasive but submissive tone.HAHAHA. my bf went "wei.. please.. be my girlfriend la. pleaseeeee"
so freakin irritating! but was funny la. until the dunoe how mani times, i told him, OKAY LA. can shut up anot.
aiyah, if u are sure she likes u, u have to be thick skin. MOST girls will want to think abit one, or just confirm u reali like her den accept. so must keep asking.

2. sms. same as above, only more exciting, cause u need to WAIT for the message to come. hahas. got the thrill. also, nothin to be awkward. if she suddenli never reply u when u ask her, means u kanna reject lor, beats being on the phone and she silent like mad. den in the end hang in shame. hahas

3. ask her come down from her house, directly say- in a super emo way.hahaha


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Please note that most girls, we are different individuals, dun expect everyone to be the same. It also depends on the degree of courage and the WAY u ask, dun go "oi, be my gf lars" and expect sure can get one.
Dont be surprised if non of the methods work. Also, such methods are best used IF u are SURE, however, it is to different individual how SURE is SURE. many times we think others like us alot but its the other way around. lols.
Some might prefer u to grab her and dun need say anything naturally is gf. HAHAHA. i dunoe la.

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Old 28-04-2007, 06:16 PM   #3 (permalink)
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haha. thats so true. But like what u said, not all the girls are the same. Once, i dated this girl for about 2 years, along the way i asked her lotsa time to a point where she agreed to it. i should be happy right? wrong. Cause thats what i wanted, she accepted it because of me not because she really really really really like me. So i sorta let her be on her way..so im single till now. haha. saddening but hey thats life huh..


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Old 29-04-2007, 10:08 AM   #4 (permalink)
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are u sure.... looks kinda weird to me but i mean some gals just because they want u to happy so they decided to date with you just making sure not to make u sad. then of course thats not love also already then not exciting
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Old 29-04-2007, 10:33 AM   #5 (permalink)
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hehe for me.. my bf isn't really the romantic kind, but he's cute also lehz, asked me suddenly when we were eating at ljs was stunned lahz, but i accepted him haha..


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Old 29-04-2007, 11:26 AM   #6 (permalink)
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..... interesting way.... haha
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Old 29-04-2007, 12:57 PM   #7 (permalink)
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eh, be my girlfriend!!!


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Old 29-04-2007, 01:04 PM   #8 (permalink)
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hehe for me.. my bf isn't really the romantic kind, but he's cute also lehz, asked me suddenly when we were eating at ljs was stunned lahz, but i accepted him haha..


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Old 29-04-2007, 01:52 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Don't try asking the girl....
Go out with the girl see the signs of whether she is attracted to you such as leaning near you during movies or when u go near her will she move back and stuff...
If there is a sign which she want you to hold her hand, hold it can see how...
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Old 29-04-2007, 02:34 PM   #10 (permalink)
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hmm yeah agreed. hahaah.

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Old 29-04-2007, 02:58 PM   #11 (permalink)
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haiz.. mi nwo no gd le worz..so i oso donno how to sae.

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i swear that all the above i try fails..:cry3: no offence gals i find that eve is a very difficult creature to figure out.

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