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14-04-2008, 10:41 PM
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| | Registered Members
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Would you go for a guy/girl who loves you but you don't have any feelings for
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Would you go for a guy/girl who don't love you but you love him/her wholeheartedly ?
Basically , it's a question of being loved and loving someone.
Not long ago, i always thought that i will choose to be loved. However, it's quite tough accepting someone who you don't have any feelings for (esp someone whose personality or actions IRKS you)..as what i have found out recently.
Of course , the best situation is both love each other. But what if you have to choose ?
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14-04-2008, 11:31 PM
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maybe neither...
its heart-ache-ing to be with both kinds, both the one u love but dun love u, and the one who loves u but u dun love.
the one who loves u but whom u dun love....a part of me will be very appreciative for the love he gifs, but i wont ever be truly happy if im not wif the one i turly love. and since my heart is not fully wif him i may not gif WHOLE-HEARTEDLY nad not in the way one wold truly gif without restrains for e person he/she loves. so its NOT FAIR to him.
the one u love but dun love u.....i used to think a person can be happy jus loving the one u love, jus letting him feel my love, feel loved, even if he doesnt love me. but its really draining to gif but not get any love bac AT ALL....its really heart-wrenching knowing he doesnt love you...
its worst if he doesnt appreaciate the love u gif even if u dun expect anything in return. in fact, loving the person may not be the best for the person...he/she may be happier without u hanging arnd...
so, someone will suffer in both cases. tho each case is different.
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14-04-2008, 11:36 PM
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| | Legendary San Guo Freak
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I wanna be loved and I wanna love also...
Love is best if it's two-sided...
One sided love is always painful...
But I'm more prone to love others than being loved...
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14-04-2008, 11:36 PM
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| | .R o k u ♥ D e v i l.
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i guess most people are looking for somone they cannot live without but often end up being with someone they can live with.
nowdays i wonder how many people marry because they have to ;x
If you ask me, i think i also don't know how to answer..
it's like to find someone you really love, willing to give all you have,
it can be very xing fu at the same time very tired if the other person don't love you as much as you does.. | 
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14-04-2008, 11:43 PM
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| | Loves Marketing x33
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| Quote: | | | Originally Posted by AlphaCentauri | | | | | | Would you go for a guy/girl who loves you but you don't have any feelings for
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Would you go for a guy/girl who don't love you but you love him/her wholeheartedly ? | | | | | No. Yes.
Tried out both before, I've hurt the person that love me terribly. Despite breaking his heart twice, he still love me.. Make me feel damn guilty. (Did tried to like him, but really no feeling lei.)
Then the person I like most.. till now still can't get over ah. So it's kind of impossible to fall in love agn. sighh.
Now, I'm sure what I want is to be with someone I love most. And not someone that love me most. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. | |
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14-04-2008, 11:46 PM
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| | Legendary San Guo Freak
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In my case, there's one person whom I'll never forget and will always have feelings for...
But I know that we're impossible because her expectations are very high...
So I can only keep those feelings in my heart...
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14-04-2008, 11:58 PM
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| | loves blogging (:
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to love ba..
at least u wun feel weird around with the person, rather than with a person whom u gt no feelings at all..
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28-04-2008, 12:25 PM
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| | Registered Members
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| Quote: | | | Originally Posted by AlphaCentauri | | | | | | Would you go for a guy/girl who loves you but you don't have any feelings for
OR
Would you go for a guy/girl who don't love you but you love him/her wholeheartedly ?
Basically , it's a question of being loved and loving someone.
Not long ago, i always thought that i will choose to be loved. However, it's quite tough accepting someone who you don't have any feelings for (esp someone whose personality or actions IRKS you)..as what i have found out recently.
Of course , the best situation is both love each other. But what if you have to choose ?
Any comments? | | | | |
love n be loved | |
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28-04-2008, 09:12 PM
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| | Foodie !! ~
Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 2,677 Gender:
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I Think I Would Choose Neither Of Them . Cause If You Choose Be Loved And You Dun Love That Person . Its Like Hurting That Person But If You Choose To Love But The Person Dosent Love You . Theres No Point Being Together . Why Not Be Single And Wait For Someone You Love And That Person Loves You =) . | |
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28-04-2008, 09:13 PM
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| | HeartBroken Member
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maybe neither...
Im doing the opposite to wad my heart tells me to do. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. | |
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28-04-2008, 09:35 PM
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| | Beautymagician
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alright here's my answer: NEITHER
yah. neither will work out. so i'd rather be alone. till someone right comes along... =)
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28-04-2008, 09:44 PM
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| | Gd frenz R haRd 2 FiNd
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Its tooo tiring, heartbreaking, and saddening to love someone who doesn't love u or worse love someone else!
I'd feel very guilty, trapped and awkward to be loved by someone i don't love. And i learnt that sometimes feelings cannot be developed over time - sometimes its either meant to be or not to be!
So i'll juz choose NEITHER as well. I don't need to have someone just for companion's sake or to be in a r/s. My good friends and family are good enough if i can't find someone i love and whom love me too! To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. | |
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28-04-2008, 09:44 PM
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| | Erika = Cute
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NEVER why bother | |
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29-04-2008, 01:23 AM
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I will go for the person love me as much as i do... | |
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29-04-2008, 01:26 AM
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| | the labi
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