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Old 29-07-2007, 03:30 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Guys and Their Dolls

I found a link on a blog, which led me to an interesting, if not slightly disturbing, documentary.

http://video.google.com/videoplay?do...87618964917848

Yes, its about men... and life sized dolls which they use for sex

I felt rather creeped out when I looked at how obsessive the men in this documentary were about their dolls, especially the first one. He was actually deluding himself beliving that his doll was alive and could reprociate his feelings... Creepy.

I still dont get it though, why would any guy want to throw away any chance he has of a relationship with a women for... inanimate objects? All they do is provide the person with physical pleasure. But can they console you when you feel down? No. Do they actually have personalities or little quirks which you find endearing? No. The first guy ( the most obsessive one ) actually didnt look ugly at all, Im pretty sure that if he just adjusted his own way of dressing or made a few lifestyle changes, he could go out and get a girlfriend.

Any Opinions?

I hate people who talk as if they ate an entire libary of religous text, just because you belive its true doesnt mean everyone thinks the same.

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Old 29-07-2007, 03:32 PM   #2 (permalink)
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wth,, im a doll freak too.
i have a doll myself, and it cost me SGD350...
wth.. wth... wth.. u are very rude...
my doll...


wth.. how can u say this..
why cant guys like dolls.. wth.. no matter guys or gals.. as long as we like the dolls.. we treat them as human.. as daughter, sister or spouse..

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Old 29-07-2007, 03:38 PM   #3 (permalink)
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wth,, im a doll freak too.
i have a doll myself, and it cost me SGD350...
wth.. wth... wth.. u are very rude...
my doll...

wth.. how can u say this..
why cant guys like dolls.. wth.. no matter guys or gals.. as long as we like the dolls.. we treat them as human.. as daughter, sister or spouse..
Um, I mean the guys in the documentary use the dolls as sex objects, they're the life sized ones and the guys actually imagine up personalities for the dolls to spice things up.

Nothing against actual doll lovers, I was actually hoping for more of a debate on the guy's behaviors =x As they are what could be called obsessive =x

On the treating the dolls as spouses thing, I dont know, it just doesnt sit well with me, part of how I think I guess. I do apologise if my views are offensive to you =( But I just dont get why guys would give up their social life for dolls =x

I hate people who talk as if they ate an entire libary of religous text, just because you belive its true doesnt mean everyone thinks the same.

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Old 29-07-2007, 03:42 PM   #4 (permalink)
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oh.. i thought u mean those dolls lovers..
because ur vid cannot view

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Old 29-07-2007, 03:44 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Oh lol

Um for the vid you have to click the link lol, since the video is on googlevideo and not youtube ><

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Old 29-07-2007, 03:48 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Old 29-07-2007, 04:01 PM   #7 (permalink)
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I think they r sick -.- use doll as sex really despo until like that disgust by their action

to fall in love is always easy
to start a relationship is always simple
to build it, is always tough
to maintain it, is 'better said than done'
to break off, is 'easier said than done'
to remain friends after u broke off, is never possible
to forget the memories is 'always doing but never succeeding'
to heal the pain within is hard and tough and never near simple
but one has to try to heal your own heart...
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Old 29-07-2007, 05:39 PM   #8 (permalink)
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im not really sure if this habit / practice is healthy.. and it gives me the creeps. they could try go for counselling sessions. no offence to anyone though...

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Old 29-07-2007, 05:42 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Cos the dolls never demand anything in return. They don't throw tantrums, lost temper, etc.

To each his own.

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Old 29-07-2007, 05:43 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Old 29-07-2007, 06:27 PM   #11 (permalink)
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actually nothign wrong also.. -.-
some are really for sexual purpose
some are really love.
actually when u love something, u dun need a reason..
really.. u will love it without a reason..
u dun noe why u love it
u will just find it perfect, and beautiful.
just like how i see my dollfie ^^

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Old 29-07-2007, 06:43 PM   #12 (permalink)
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wow this is new to me.. i didnt some ppl are so obsess wif sex that they go to such extremes..
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Old 29-07-2007, 06:51 PM   #13 (permalink)
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@Himeko

Yeah, i do understand that some people do have lasting affections for certain inanimate objects based on looks or memories. But the first and third guy in the vid were using the dolls to replace a void in their life, the lack of a woman that they could use as a sexual object or as a companion. Which really doesnt seem healthy to me at all, I mean, sure, I know some people who treat stuffed animals as if they were alive, but as a relationship partner and giving up their social life etc for it...?

@Mendy

Why do you feel that way? =x

@Peunan

Perhaps, but arent those personality quirks like a short temper or people's faults sometimes what endears us to them? I feel that using an effigy of a woman's self as a sex tool only serves to degrade women's position in relationships, as this puts forth the idea that women should always be the submissive party in a relationship, in this case, a sexual one =x

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human got needs mah.
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anyway this was out in japan market long way ago.


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