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12-04-2008, 12:00 AM
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#1 (permalink)
| | ~*~*~*~*~*~
Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 1,018 Gender:  Location: somewhr across the sea
Total SGC$: 1,145.95 |  If a guy is not curious....
... does it mean he's not interested?
I mean, if a guy sporadically ask stuff about the girl's daily going-ons and expects detailed descriptions, but sometimes when the girl gives him chance to learn more, to ask further questions... he doesn't.
Does that mean he's only being curious selectively? Casual curiosity on certain things?
And also... does being NOT curious means he is not interested in the girl romantically?
I dunno, if I'm interested in somebody, I think I'd be really curious to know everything abt him... How do guys usually go about this? | 
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12-04-2008, 12:05 AM
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#2 (permalink)
| | Legendary San Guo Freak
Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,085 Gender: 
Total SGC$: 6,490.51 | Re: If a guy is not curious....
Maybe the guy is interested in you but he doesn't dare to make his feelings known...
He might be taking more time to see whether you're suited for him...
Maybe you can tell him that you need a listening ear and tell him whatever you want him to know... 
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12-04-2008, 12:47 AM
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| | Hiroto
Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 4,626 Gender:
Total SGC$: 1,539.17 | Re: If a guy is not curious....
sometime guy might not want to give an impression of very kpo and naggy that why bah
to fall in love is always easy
to start a relationship is always simple
to build it, is always tough
to maintain it, is 'better said than done'
to break off, is 'easier said than done'
to remain friends after u broke off, is never possible
to forget the memories is 'always doing but never succeeding'
to heal the pain within is hard and tough and never near simple
but one has to try to heal your own heart...
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12-04-2008, 12:55 AM
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#4 (permalink)
| | ~*~*~*~*~*~
Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 1,018 Gender: Location: somewhr across the sea
Total SGC$: 1,145.95 | Re: If a guy is not curious....
But how would we girls know if the guys are interested in us or not? Sometimes ask so much, then when give them chance to ask, they like not interested.. so what does that mean? Guys also sending mixed signals?? Headache deh like that.. playing guessing game?? | |
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12-04-2008, 02:05 AM
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| | Fallen
Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 80 Gender: Location: central area of Singapore
Total SGC$: 184.06 | Re: If a guy is not curious....
Nowadays guys are always like that....
when you show interest, they will back off and when they know you are letting go, they will lure you back again (sounds like fishing huh?) These type of guys are called Creeps! ~**bEtTeR tO rEiGn In HeLl, ThAn SeRvE iN hEaVeN**~ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. | |
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12-04-2008, 05:29 AM
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| | 雨后就会有彩虹!
Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 1,241 Gender:
Total SGC$: 1,165.88 | Re: If a guy is not curious....
guys always act lik thy r not interested but deep down thy r more ji po den ladies haha
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12-04-2008, 05:41 AM
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| | the labi
Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 5,089 Gender:
Total SGC$: 8,487.45 | Re: If a guy is not curious....
wait and see...
i believe wz the female uncanny senses, u will b able to tell soon...
trust ur own feelings ya.... | |
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12-04-2008, 09:42 AM
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| | SiaoLangs`-
Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 445 Gender:
Total SGC$: 401.17 | Re: If a guy is not curious....
Guys are also human..
For me, i think that most guys fear rejection..
So they would just ask you casually so you wouldnt suspect anything.
If u let them know much more..
Theyll think that theyre tricking themselves.. so they wouldnt talk much.
If you want to talk to him about your experiences or life..
Best you should tell him slowly. Not all at once.
Hid my true self away,
Surrounded myself walls of steel.
Im just another non existent thing.
Those silence cries begs for people to hear.
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12-04-2008, 10:05 AM
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#9 (permalink)
| | Registered Members
Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 83 Gender:
Total SGC$: 90.50 | Re: If a guy is not curious....
You can't compare between you and a guy. COs man have different view about love and relationship. Difference is the Thinking. Woman think Emotionally, while Guys think logically. If you wan to understand what a man is thinking, you think logically, same goes for the man also. "if a guy sporadically ask stuff about the girl's daily going-ons and expects detailed descriptions"= 70% he be interesed. "but sometimes when the girl gives him chance to learn more, to ask further questions... he doesn't"= Maybe he just doesn't catch the signal, of you letting him to know more about your social life. | |
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12-04-2008, 10:13 AM
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#10 (permalink)
| | Experienced SGClubber
Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 3,949 Gender:
Total SGC$: 1,303.42 | Re: If a guy is not curious....
Most guy are like that... He may seems interested in a particular girl... Will ask about her daily things etc... But will automatically stop even he will have chance to ask further... This kind of guy just not caring enough... But again, some things the girl said might stop him from asking further... Eg: The girl tell him that he went out with this guy etc... He might get jealous and stop asking... =)
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12-04-2008, 10:23 AM
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#11 (permalink)
| | Addicted SGClubber
Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 594 Gender:
Total SGC$: 941.20 | Re: If a guy is not curious....
i guess most guys are not as good as girls in catching signals. Just take your time in letting him know you, and try to know him more. Let nature take its course.
But, there are certain signs that might shows that hes interested:
- He trys to check on how are you doing every other day and wish to know your ok.
- He trys to ask you out
- He trys to talk to you whenever he sees you and don't really bother about anyone else
- He trys to make eye contact with you. (Its either he keep his eyes with yours or if hes a shy guy his eyes will siam very fast)
- He trys to show care and concern more den a friend should show.
- He trys to stick to you like honey whenever you two go out in group
- He trys to change (Wear nicer clothings, slim down, accessories, do the hair nicer), but it might not be you but someone else that hes interested in. Leo~
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12-04-2008, 09:28 PM
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#12 (permalink)
| | ~*~*~*~*~*~
Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 1,018 Gender: Location: somewhr across the sea
Total SGC$: 1,145.95 | Re: If a guy is not curious....
| Quote: | | | Originally Posted by Leocravensky | | | | | | - He trys to check on how are you doing every other day and wish to know your ok.
- He trys to ask you out
- He trys to talk to you whenever he sees you and don't really bother about anyone else
- He trys to make eye contact with you. (Its either he keep his eyes with yours or if hes a shy guy his eyes will siam very fast)
- He trys to show care and concern more den a friend should show.
- He trys to stick to you like honey whenever you two go out in group
- He trys to change (Wear nicer clothings, slim down, accessories, do the hair nicer), but it might not be you but someone else that hes interested in. | | | | |
Oh noo... none of the above?? At least, I never really go notice...  | |
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12-04-2008, 09:53 PM
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#13 (permalink)
| | watermelon gum :D
Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 57 Gender: Location: bikini bottoms :D
Total SGC$: 66.90 | Re: If a guy is not curious....
act curious niia! for sure interest de la. once a guy is a leetle bit curious, its about everything le. even aboutt ur homework or hairstyle anything!
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12-04-2008, 10:35 PM
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| | Addicted SGClubber
Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 594 Gender:
Total SGC$: 941.20 | Re: If a guy is not curious....
| Quote: | | | Originally Posted by MiRyung | | | | | | Oh noo... none of the above?? At least, I never really go notice... | | | | | So... try to notice, if not a single sign from there, most prolly hes treating u under the 'friend - good friend' category. Try to find out from his friends/him if theres someone in his mind to clear your doubts =). Leo~
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12-04-2008, 11:30 PM
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#15 (permalink)
| | Registered Members
Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 129 Gender:
Total SGC$: 131.80 | Re: If a guy is not curious....
| Quote: | | | Originally Posted by Leocravensky | | | | | | i guess most guys are not as good as girls in catching signals. Just take your time in letting him know you, and try to know him more. Let nature take its course.
But, there are certain signs that might shows that hes interested:
- He trys to check on how are you doing every other day and wish to know your ok.
- He trys to ask you out
- He trys to talk to you whenever he sees you and don't really bother about anyone else
- He trys to make eye contact with you. (Its either he keep his eyes with yours or if hes a shy guy his eyes will siam very fast)
- He trys to show care and concern more den a friend should show.
- He trys to stick to you like honey whenever you two go out in group
- He trys to change (Wear nicer clothings, slim down, accessories, do the hair nicer), but it might not be you but someone else that hes interested in. | | | | |
So if vice versa? how to know if a girl is interested in a guy? or NOT interested in a guy once he did those above? | |
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12-04-2008, 11:47 PM
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| | was once in love with ZH.
Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 3,354 Gender: Location: serangoon north
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