Got any deep dark secret you still keeping from your lover? - Singapore's Online Community

**Peuan Sanit** · 17-08-2007, 10:41 PM

There should not be a secrets between lovers.

Although sometimes the truth hurts, it is better to be trueful from the beginning. As the saying goes " It take another lie to cover the first lie" in times, you will be telling him/her hundreds or thousands of lies to cover your very first lie.

**icecat** · 17-08-2007, 11:20 PM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by Peuan Sanit
	There should not be a secrets between lovers. Although sometimes the truth hurts, it is better to be trueful from the beginning. As the saying goes " It take another lie to cover the first lie" in times, you will be telling him/her hundreds or thousands of lies to cover your very first lie.

What if he break up with me and tell everyone my secret?

**hei_se_you_mo** · 18-08-2007, 01:44 AM

If he truely loves u, I dun think he will do that. Normally guys are not that petty. But I will suggest you to find an opportunity to slowly break the "secret" to him lor. He's ur bf, he deserves to know.

	Quote:			Originally Posted by icecat
	What if he break up with me and tell everyone my secret?

**icecat** · 18-08-2007, 02:44 AM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by hei_se_you_mo
	If he truely loves u, I dun think he will do that. Normally guys are not that petty. But I will suggest you to find an opportunity to slowly break the "secret" to him lor. He's ur bf, he deserves to know.

hard to trust guys :shifty3:

WEE_LEE · 18-08-2007, 05:08 AM

hmm..
you ought to tell him the truth.
at least if you tell him now
the dmg inflicted wouldn't be that hurtful.
sometimes i kno my gf is lying.
i just chose not to kno
am just gonna wait till she tells me the truth.
altho i've told her, if you ever lie to me.
its over between us.
am willing to forgive her if shes truthful to me.
as long as the same mistake doesn't occurs again.

**tear** · 18-08-2007, 08:20 AM

hmmm i also think that he should noe e truth...truth might hurt...but it's always better that u tell him...before he finds out...sometimes secrets are hard to say de...hmmm

**LReaction** · 18-08-2007, 08:44 AM

I can't bear to tell my lover that she's imaginary.. if not she will disappear!..
Just kidding. I agree with what people say, keeping "inconvenient" facts from your other half is like playing with a ticking time bomb.

lovekaren · 18-08-2007, 09:33 AM

this secret with me for one year le.
i betray him. he confront.
i lie to hide that betrayal.

he never been disappointed in me before,
only angry.

**sinned** · 18-08-2007, 11:34 AM

i known to my friends that i will tell everything to my gf. she wanna know i just tell her.

**Shyraiiyann** · 18-08-2007, 02:53 PM

I love myself, and i reward myself with lil secrets my bf doesnt know.

As long as i'm not betrayin him, i dont see the need to tell him EVERYTHING, when we say EVERYTHING to our bf, we're left with nothin,

then he might find u borin, coz he knows EVERYTHING abt u already

**icyOrange** · 18-08-2007, 09:31 PM

i think everyone have their own secrets whether its deep dark ones or sum other kinds..well a secret is a secret. I agree with the fact that there shouldnt be any secrets between partners but sometimes u gotta make an exception..

**dawgbyte** · 19-08-2007, 01:00 AM

I think sometimes its better not to tell the whole truth. Some people just can't handle it. Since I'm a guy, my bias is that some women just can't accept. If they found out later then the r/s will end. But if they found out now, it will also end. I have done stupid things in my past. Things I regretted. Girls will say past is past and honesty is better than lie, but once you decided to tell the truth, they will realize they cannot be a part of it.

**icecat** · 19-08-2007, 01:10 AM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by dawgbyte
	I think sometimes its better not to tell the whole truth. Some people just can't handle it. Since I'm a guy, my bias is that some women just can't accept. If they found out later then the r/s will end. But if they found out now, it will also end. I have done stupid things in my past. Things I regretted. Girls will say past is past and honesty is better than lie, but once you decided to tell the truth, they will realize they cannot be a part of it.

If she really love you,she won't mind coz she see a future with you.

**clement** · 19-08-2007, 01:48 AM

Truth hurts, but from my point of view so long as you never done her wrong and betray her it shld be ok. Sometimes lie is inevitable to prevent making her feel hurt. I categorise as good lie bad lie.

simplepris · 19-08-2007, 03:13 AM

i dun think i have any secrets bah.. be it with my bf or frens.. haha! usually i would just talk and talk and opps! out come the 'secret'.. (shit!!) anyway my life is kinda simple.. so i dun have any juicy secret/gossips anyway..

as for my bf.. hmm.. he lied to me quite a number of times lah.. somehow i managed to discover them.. maybe.. woman's 6th sense? haiz, used to it le lah.. nowadays i dun really care liao.. little lies still ok.. as for harmless lies..i had long talks with him before but things just went back to sq 1.. so no point talking too much lah.. tired of hearing the same old promises dat are nv fulfilled.. zzz.. if he dare to lie or do anything wrong then i'm outta there! (at least dat's wat i threaten him.. haha!)