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Old 24-08-2007, 10:29 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Is it a good idea to keep in touch with Ex? Should we keep a distance away from Ex? :handsup:


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Old 24-08-2007, 10:34 AM   #2 (permalink)
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depends situation??
u might feel awkward thou..

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Old 24-08-2007, 10:41 AM   #3 (permalink)
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do u ?


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Old 24-08-2007, 12:00 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Default Re: Is it a good idea to keep in touch with Ex?

give me... i will rather we both cool off for a period then befriends again. afterall if u become friends straight after the break. high chance is one of u might not be able to let things go and this might strain on the friendship.


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Old 24-08-2007, 12:27 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Default Re: Is it a good idea to keep in touch with Ex?

Hmmmm.....I think it is okay to keep in touch. But different people treat it differently, so some people might break it off once and for all. Whereas some can still be very good friends with their Ex....

It depends on how you want to treat it, really as friends or hoping for the slight chance of getting back together or whatever reasons.
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Old 24-08-2007, 12:58 PM   #6 (permalink)
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depends as my ex and i now are good friends and even often confide to each other but some of my other ex never keep in contact as feel awkard
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Old 24-08-2007, 08:54 PM   #7 (permalink)
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i tink muz c which ex and their attitude and character ba..
some they tink past is canot be fren le..
some can.even becoming gd fren
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Old 24-08-2007, 10:03 PM   #8 (permalink)
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My one true SG love is still a close friend of mine. We broke up about 16 yrs ago and now she is a mother of 3 and yet we are still best of friends.

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Old 24-08-2007, 10:14 PM   #9 (permalink)
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i keep in contact with all my Ex. We are close friends in fact one is my best friend.
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Old 24-08-2007, 10:15 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Default Re: Is it a good idea to keep in touch with Ex?

think it depends on person... situation...
sometimes can be good firends.. some just lost contact lo..
anyway, its better to keep a friend (if got such luck with an ex) than lose a friend..

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Old 24-08-2007, 11:48 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Default Re: Is it a good idea to keep in touch with Ex?

hmmm i think depends on and ur ex...hmmm but for me...i wont mind to keep in contact...hmmm but only if the person still contacts me...if doesnt,,,hmmm then i wont be the person who starts to contact...hmmm i think if u r attached...also must see if ur partner mind u staying in contact with ex...hmmm
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Old 25-08-2007, 02:12 AM   #12 (permalink)
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Default Re: Is it a good idea to keep in touch with Ex?

for me, why not?

but not for everyone. each and everyone have their own choice.
perhaps some broke up becuz of some bad happenings. but in anyway, why can't we just hold on to that friendship? i mean, even though you two broke up, still can be friends ma.

i'm still in a very close friendship with my ex-gf. she always confide me with any problems she have. lolz.

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Old 25-08-2007, 09:44 PM   #13 (permalink)
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my exs are now my good friends=). i dont like losing someone..


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Old 25-08-2007, 09:56 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Default Re: Is it a good idea to keep in touch with Ex?

Guess it depends.
If 1 party stilll wanna patch, it might be better not to stay in contact until things really cool off.
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Old 26-08-2007, 07:47 AM   #15 (permalink)
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Default Re: Is it a good idea to keep in touch with Ex?

its a NO!

i mean why hold on to the past. you cant move on like that and how would your current bf/gf feels if he/she knows you still in contact with your ex.

maybe some can accept but mostly, no.

so should respect them if you want to be respected.

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Old 26-08-2007, 08:08 AM   #16 (permalink)
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yup, y not? my recent ex is still my best friend, thou we broke off for almost a year, we still chat abt anything under the sun


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Old 26-08-2007, 10:16 AM   #17 (permalink)
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Default Re: Is it a good idea to keep in touch with Ex?

can be still friends,one more friend is always better than 1 enemy but for that case rather hard cos she is already married.

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Old 26-08-2007, 11:20 AM   #18 (permalink)
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Default Re: Is it a good idea to keep in touch with Ex?

it really depends on individuals

its like inorder to be an ex, one have to end the relationship

and this shows that that person must have did something wrong

or maybe both of you are unsuitable

there must be a reason for being an ex you see

so i don't see the reason why you should stay in contact

what it does is to remind you of the past

so i do advice you not to contact your ex anymore and move on:surprised:
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Old 26-08-2007, 12:15 PM   #19 (permalink)
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