ryuza

Its kinda auto that in any r/s, there'll be a fair amount of giving in from both sides, but what if u are made to give in almost all of the time?

and to what extent can you give in to? arguments? pampering? betrayal? two-timing?

personally, i can be considered quite the "giving-in" kind of guy, yet when it tips over the level, i can feel quite taken for granted ( hate this feeling...)

I've got a friend who even had given a few chances to her bf who cheated on her behind her back (like having sex with other women).

give in/give chance - are they the same? and if they are, is it worth it?

if they are not, then when should the giving in or giving chance come about?

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frostysurfer

It depends!! Guys can never take it down when their gf sleep with other guys even if they love them. Gals may still accept their bfs back even when they are caught sleeping with other women.

My view is rather extreme. I am someone who cant tolerate betrayal and lies. Things would end for me and the girl if she did things related to betrayal and lies. Simple as that.

As for differences between two parties, theres always a need for compromise and you cant expect either party to change for you. Its time to move on when u realize people wont appreciate you for being committed in a relationship.

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finaldust

I can give in to most things except 2 timers and lies bah i hate this bah

to fall in love is always easy
to start a relationship is always simple
to build it, is always tough
to maintain it, is 'better said than done'
to break off, is 'easier said than done'
to remain friends after u broke off, is never possible
to forget the memories is 'always doing but never succeeding'
to heal the pain within is hard and tough and never near simple
but one has to try to heal your own heart...

Crysania

I always give in and be bullied. :cry3: But if there is betrayal, think I will say bye bye.

Voidgenocide

In a r/s, there shuld never be too much giving in, u can give in for 1 mth/1 yr... but can u continue givin in for the rest of ur life?
no rite? :biggrin4:

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simplepris

i tried giving in all the time.. but the guys nv appreciate dat.. and ironically, i could still be accused of not giving them freedom. kaoz, if i dun give them freedom, how could they meet other gers ar?? but well.. i guess, just the fact that they have me as gf is considered lack of freedom bah..?

eventually i realise.. to maintain a relationship.. both parties must give in.. afterall it takes 2 hands to clap. even if 1 party is willing to give in all the way forever.. i dun think the relationship will go on for long.

when 1 party is not willing to put in effort.. it simply means he/she does not treasure his/her partner.. (in fact he/she will love his/her partner lesser and lesser..) so i think.. no point giving in 100% forever and hope that ur partner will finally realise how good u r to him/her.. cos he/she will probably realised that only AFTER u r gone..

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There not a need to give in too much. Normally gal wil like boy to give in much more. I tried but always didnt work out, in the end majiam they tak advantage of mi kindness -.-


giving in too much is no good

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silencedreamer

if its always one party giving in all the time, the relationship will not last. the other party won't appreciate the one giving in as well.

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ryuza

very very true...

recently just left my gf cos of this reason... haha...
the age old phrase of "not treasuring until it has left"

but what if he/she decides to change, would u believe and go back?

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ryuza

haha, i totally agree.... really..

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ryuza

No one can give in for life... but if both give in to each other.. still got say... haha...

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bluehawk168

I don't agree with you. Giving in to gf is very common. For me I give in to my gf most of the time and sometimes she also give in to me. We can't be so calculative looking for balance (i give in 5 times and she give in 5 times?). You quoted that your friend whose bf is cheating on her and that seems to be extreme and she can ask for break up. If couples ask for breakup, something serious must have happened but what if couple breakup coz of minor problems? That's when giving chance comes in. So when nothing serious has happen, what's wrong if couples give chances to each other. The most important point is TRUST. TRUST is what couples need to keep strong relationship going. I trust my gf and i know she trust me that's enough. But what if couple breaks up just because the trust is not enough? When i started in my relationship with my gf, i'm always worried when she meet other guys or when she recieved sms from guys and i'm always very kpo about who she's meeting or sending her sms. But now i'm steady about it coz i know i can trust her. How much do you trust your gf? I always ask myself that. I trust my gf 100% coz i know
she loves me very much.
How much do you trust your gf? :confused2:


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