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Old 12-04-2008, 12:06 PM   #1 (permalink)
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is it possible that in love you give too much such that when you get dumped, the fall that you take is extremely hard and painful?
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Old 12-04-2008, 12:11 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Yup... That happened to me most the time... hehee... It do is sweet sometimes... but feel the pains deeper too...

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Old 12-04-2008, 12:12 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Default Re: Give too much

unless the person dumped is a playgirl/playboy,
it'll be painful


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Old 12-04-2008, 12:12 PM   #4 (permalink)
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I agree that its sweet.. especially for the person you do it for.. however, the pain is extreme for yourself when you get dumped..
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Old 12-04-2008, 12:14 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Default Re: Give too much

Wont actually, if you feel extremely painful or pain when you given too much on someone and someone leaves you then that is not love.

I wont mind giving my life to someone i love

Conclusion: In love, not painful at all; not love, you might felt betrayed.
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Old 12-04-2008, 12:18 PM   #6 (permalink)
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but if you love the person so much, do so much for him/her.. then him/her dun appreciate it.. then is like you do too much for them and end up hurting urself. I have felt the way u said... I wont mind giving my life to someone i love... but the person doesnt appreciate the depth of my love... but i still love the person...

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Old 12-04-2008, 12:22 PM   #7 (permalink)
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but if you love the person so much, do so much for him/her.. then him/her dun appreciate it.. then is like you do too much for them and end up hurting urself. I have felt the way u said... I wont mind giving my life to someone i love... but the person doesnt appreciate the depth of my love... but i still love the person...
You already answered your question, you love him.

And you love him.
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Old 12-04-2008, 12:23 PM   #8 (permalink)
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love is such a strange thing.....

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Old 12-04-2008, 12:26 PM   #9 (permalink)
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You already answered your question, you love him.

And you love him.
but there's still the extreme pain from breaking off...
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Old 12-04-2008, 12:29 PM   #10 (permalink)
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but there's still the extreme pain from breaking off...
What can i say, get well soon.

Get someone who loves you or someone you love but he does not appreciate you?
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Old 12-04-2008, 12:33 PM   #11 (permalink)
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will this pain cause you to not give so much in a r/s the nxt time? or is it possible to destroy any traces of love in a person?
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Old 12-04-2008, 12:36 PM   #12 (permalink)
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you cant destroy love, even after you died.

try not to give, love is about sharing, good or bad.
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Old 12-04-2008, 12:37 PM   #13 (permalink)
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erm... destroy as in cant open up to anyone else and therefore cannot love again? haha
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Old 12-04-2008, 12:40 PM   #14 (permalink)
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i wont repeat what i've just said

"haha" laughing meaning i can assume you're ok already

Dont think too much, love naturally, dont open or close or anything, just love the way you should love.
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Old 12-04-2008, 12:42 PM   #15 (permalink)
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will this pain cause you to not give so much in a r/s the nxt time? or is it possible to destroy any traces of love in a person?
Well for me, if my 1st relationship doesn't work out. I probably still love and her love even though we may be apart. But for me to enter in another relationship will most probably have to depend on my partner, if she can help me forget my first love, then i'll start a new r/s. If she can't then i guess i have to live with it till i forget her, but the point is, if you truly love someone, sometime it not necessary have to be beside with her just to have love or show love, sometimes its also about letting go.

Haha sometime even tho i tell 'these' tp myself, its hard to do what i said. I can understand what you're going through. Its hard. Especially if u put in alot of effort. But thats love ya? Haha Love is an extraordinary thing. It change a person perception in life alot. At least it did for me.

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Old 12-04-2008, 02:06 PM   #16 (permalink)
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people always say "i'll do anything for you", but where did it lead me to in the end? a heart that is broken into billions and zillions of pieces....
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Old 12-04-2008, 02:10 PM   #17 (permalink)
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