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Imagine you're in your mid 20s, just started work only. hardly have any savings..

would you choose to get married now, or later when more money/career stabilised? If no money, how to get house, renovate, buy furniture, pay bills?

alternatively, how do you work around that?

PiDanBeR

Marriage itself needs alot of planning... $$ is rather important... however, its not everything for it... I felt that if both dun mind 'chi ku' together, and wanted to settle down, why not?

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stardustsyeo

no. cause have to consider 2-3 years down the road when (most probably) there will be a new member to the family..

Stanstan

I'm like what u described, start working in middle age & dont have much savings now, so No, I would not choose to get married so soon, But I will start planning now. I dunwan my marriage to have problems involving $$..

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joann.sienna

great topic for me.
and i'm not even 20.

i'm still undecided though.

TotalNV

nope... no money = no marriage... save up first.

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yukio

i wonder if can like, live tgt all but not register? like "you marry me i marry you" but no black and white?

is that allowed?

sin_istra

isn't that considered cohabit? think it's not illegal la, but probably got to face the comments of those around you... well, our society is not very open-minded about this yet, i think... and what if as you cohabit, then suddenly got child?



anyway, i always hoped to get married shortly after i graduate... don't have to be financially stabilised yet.
my superior once told me, that a boy will mature when he finds himself a girlfriend, and a man will mature much more when he gets himself a wife. because of the difference in status, you have more responsibilities, forcing you to mature, and probably gives you motivation to work harder, helping you earn more money.
despite my bad impression about my superior, i thought what he said was quite true...

so if my future girlfriend doesn't mind, i would like to get married 1/2 years after graduation haha...

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Cool79

i think must at least have 100k to play safe

joann.sienna

hello !!

that's what i'm doing now though.

we're already planning to tie the knot, but i'm still 19 going 20.

sin_istra

if you're ok with me asking, how do your parents feel about what you are doing?
if don't want to answer also no problem haha...

anyway, congratulations!

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shirodas

i bet...
the parents duno?

joann.sienna

haha ! everyone asks the same thing.

puuurrrrrfectly alright with it.