Friends are forever?

**-chocomint** · 10-05-2008, 06:54 PM

Oh well..I had always though that friends are meant to be forever...or at least they won't just leave u just like that..at least there should be a solid reason for breaking up the friendship right?Just after a broken friendship with my so-called bestie, I found another friend. we'r very close.. friends since primary school..she's a few years younger than me.recently,she had been avoiding me..for reasons unknown to me.when i asked her,she said she wanted to be alone..what should i do?i do care for her but how should i show my concern?by leaving her alone?I know that one wrong move can end everything..just like what happened between me and my bestie. I'm so confused! why is she avoiding me?what should i do?

& friends..are they forever?

**dzpliu** · 10-05-2008, 06:57 PM

nothing is forever,cherish before they are gone

**StealthEagle** · 10-05-2008, 07:30 PM

Life goes on with or without childhood friends, at least for me.

I can still make friends in the future.

Let her cool down for awhile, maybe the situation will turn for the better. If you are quote desperate for a reason, try asking her other friends. That might be risky, as you don't know whether they will leak the conversation out to her.

**elainesy** · 10-05-2008, 09:25 PM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by dzpliu
	nothing is forever,cherish before they are gone

agree that notting is forever..if the friend are some 1 u cherish do alway keep in touch dun wait think of them den contact, as there maybe alot tin happen when u din contact them. i got a very close friend but now turn to be just friend due to diff study and work place we less contact, not we no longer so close till will met up to go shopping or etc lah..

**-chocomint** · 10-05-2008, 09:44 PM

heys thanx everyone for your advice!at least, i noe im nt alone!

**sally sally** · 10-05-2008, 09:47 PM

dun be too upset about it, best friend does not mean must alway be 2gether, at time ppl just want to be alone, as time pass, you will still meet new friends and might also become ur best friend, i had many good friends, din keep in touch now as every one has either their own family and career to take care off, so at times i felt lonly too, but when we happen to meet up in shopping area, we still talk like long lost friend, see that, so ,dun worry

**Sohjp1993** · 10-05-2008, 11:04 PM

i dun think so..
i agree to the sentence "cherish before gone"

shypineapple · 10-05-2008, 11:14 PM

agreed/
nothing is forever, im sure you'll have more good frenz in time to come (:

leishen · 11-05-2008, 02:16 AM

agreed too .. nth last forever .. cherish it b4 it gone BUT
i can bet wif u that .. although ppl noe tis sentence .. alot will onli regret over it when they are gone .. humans nature are lyke tis .. and tat's for sure ..

aniway ur case lyke mine sia .. i understand how u feel =D

**Honeyi** · 11-05-2008, 09:19 AM

Forever is just an adjective for that moment...

sovering · 11-05-2008, 10:24 AM

we will always make new frens...

as for old frens... some probably last longer than others... but eventually.... u dun get to keep all i guess..... coz they oso make new frens mah......

**-chocomint** · 11-05-2008, 11:02 AM

geez!thanx lots ppl!yupyup..when old frens say byebye, new frens wil say hello!

**T1T2T3** · 11-05-2008, 11:43 AM

relationship is only forever if both parties keep up the effort....and we usually see our so-called frens changing of guards when....
i) passed pri.6
ii) passed o lvl
iii) finished school
iv) leave ns
v) start work
vi) change work..............

whether u still keep your frens from those before....well...in reality NO....we are seeing too many new things, meeting new people, develop new interest.....so my advice...concentrate what u r supposed to be doing now...study if studying...becos if dun study..the consequences will haunt u for life....lose a so-called fren....time will heal and u will forget....trust me...THAT's a fact....even for family members, let alone so-called frens

**Huaikong** · 11-05-2008, 12:32 PM

got stuff will last forever one meh??

cute wormz · 11-05-2008, 12:37 PM

haha....frm my pt of view....nothing in this world last forever....ppl will tend to forget abt each other when new friends comes in, or long time nvr meet.....

everything will just come to an end...its just a matter of time

**Warrior** · 11-05-2008, 01:20 PM

not possible when you get older

**Warrior** · 11-05-2008, 01:20 PM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by Huaikong
	got stuff will last forever one meh??

nothing

**shatterhearts** · 11-05-2008, 02:55 PM

**ultimatenolifer** · 11-05-2008, 03:27 PM

But i think the worst is when your 'old frens' drift apart from u and u cant find any new frens in your new environment. The feeling sucks and i kena b4

darkchocolate · 11-05-2008, 08:08 PM

hmm serious...

i dont think they last forever...

i lost almost all my primary sch and sec sch mates and friends....

i only keep in touch with one of my sec sch mate...

well.. i guess it's the growing up stage,,,, when u r at different stage you tend to look for something different...

pats.. leave her alone for awhile.. im sure she will talk to you again.. when she does.. check with her wat actually happen...

mrlazy · 11-05-2008, 08:12 PM

got $ = got friend. no money no talk.

10-05-2008, 06:54 PM	#1 (permalink)
-chocomint Registered Members Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 91 iTrader: (0) My Mood: Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: AMK SGC$: 89.50 Bank: 0.00 Total SGC$: 89.50	Friends are forever? Oh well..I had always though that friends are meant to be forever...or at least they won't just leave u just like that..at least there should be a solid reason for breaking up the friendship right?Just after a broken friendship with my so-called bestie, I found another friend. we'r very close.. friends since primary school..she's a few years younger than me.recently,she had been avoiding me..for reasons unknown to me.when i asked her,she said she wanted to be alone..what should i do?i do care for her but how should i show my concern?by leaving her alone?I know that one wrong move can end everything..just like what happened between me and my bestie. I'm so confused! why is she avoiding me?what should i do? & friends..are they forever? Addicted to bubbletea!

10-05-2008, 06:57 PM	#2 (permalink)
dzpliu Abstract Lover Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 1,185 iTrader: (0) My Mood: Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: Redhill SGC$: 13.20 Bank: 1,109.16 Total SGC$: 1,122.36	Re: Friends are forever? nothing is forever,cherish before they are gone All the wonderful memories of you will soon vanish...

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StealthEagle Devious Desi Artic Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 284 iTrader: (0) My Mood: Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: Little Red Dot SGC$: 228.50 Bank: 0.73 Total SGC$: 229.23	Re: Friends are forever? Life goes on with or without childhood friends, at least for me. I can still make friends in the future. Let her cool down for awhile, maybe the situation will turn for the better. If you are quote desperate for a reason, try asking her other friends. That might be risky, as you don't know whether they will leak the conversation out to her. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

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-chocomint Registered Members Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 91 iTrader: (0) My Mood: Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: AMK SGC$: 89.50 Bank: 0.00 Total SGC$: 89.50	Re: Friends are forever? heys thanx everyone for your advice!at least, i noe im nt alone! Addicted to bubbletea!

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sally sally Registered Members Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 118 iTrader: (0) My Mood: Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: west zone SGC$: 113.50 Bank: 0.00 Total SGC$: 113.50	Re: Friends are forever? dun be too upset about it, best friend does not mean must alway be 2gether, at time ppl just want to be alone, as time pass, you will still meet new friends and might also become ur best friend, i had many good friends, din keep in touch now as every one has either their own family and career to take care off, so at times i felt lonly too, but when we happen to meet up in shopping area, we still talk like long lost friend, see that, so ,dun worry

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Sohjp1993 SG-Clubber Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 170 iTrader: (0) My Mood: Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: Taman Jurong SGC$: 125.80 Bank: 0.00 Total SGC$: 125.80	Re: Friends are forever? i dun think so.. i agree to the sentence "cherish before gone" a D-Gray-Man Fan To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

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sovering Registered Members Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 205 iTrader: (0) My Mood: Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: Singapore SGC$: 110.50 Bank: 51.27 Total SGC$: 161.77	Re: Friends are forever? we will always make new frens... as for old frens... some probably last longer than others... but eventually.... u dun get to keep all i guess..... coz they oso make new frens mah...... Your birthdate can generate a special 4D Number. Let's To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. Get lucky with Huat.sg Lucky 4D Toto Numbers. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

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-chocomint Registered Members Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 91 iTrader: (0) My Mood: Gender: Zodiac Sign: Country: Location: AMK SGC$: 89.50 Bank: 0.00 Total SGC$: 89.50	Re: Friends are forever? geez!thanx lots ppl!yupyup..when old frens say byebye, new frens wil say hello! Addicted to bubbletea!

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