teriyaki

do you hav friend hu treat other friend as a maid?!
e.g:
-MUST help her/him buy food

-when goin recess, aft eating finish all de food... de plate u r EXPECTED to help him/her to put back de stall or dat person will hint hint u until u finally agree to help him/her de favour(but using threaten method ehh)

-when go out shopping, will ask if u can help her carry thing(but ur ans cannot b CANNOT!)

-MUST accompany her home even if u r relunctant to do so

n de list go on n on n on~

so how will ur manage dis kind of fren?!
cant possible to make a big fuss of it cuz dat will lose de frenship between u n her

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Calis

Friends and buddies are those who go through thick & thin with you, sharing the loads, burdens and joy.
For me, I won't even get close to this type of people to be friends in the 1st place. Even if I have them around, I also will distance myself from them. The reason is, I am not treated with respect as a friend. Obviously she is making use of you. I'll distance and may even cut this relationship off. I coin it as 'toxic friendship'.

MamaRos

Piangz! I will only consider someone as worthy to be my friend if he/she respects me as an equal. Friends are supposed to share - secrets; jokes; dreams; meals and friends NEVER treat each other like maids! :disgust2:

If that person does treat you so badly, he/she is not regarding you as a friend but USING you.

You gotto stop allowing ppl to treat you that way and once you do, you'll realise that there are plenty of worthwhile friends who will accept you for who and what you are.

It is not the place, nor the condition, but the mind alone that can make anyone happy or miserable.
Roger L'Estrange

teriyaki

but... when u juz know her... she is not lyk dat de.. she is gradually change by another fren..(dis another fren is slightly better, ask us help her buy food only)
but now wat?!? den she nw machiam act lyk gangster FOR WAT!? SHOW US WAT!? she act as if she is a disable, a mute, a person hu is deaf..

disable as in-aft she finish her food she will sit thr ask pple help her

mute- she cant order food herself( dunno y.. mayb cuz her brain is deteriotated)

deaf- she treat as if she cant hear us tok n insist i help her do de thing...

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violette

tis is not considered true friend liaoz wor.. since u have said tat before tat she is not like tat.. have u tried to talk to her abt how u feel abt her actions? have a good talk with her.. true friends shouldn't behave in tis way.. she is obviously treating u like a MAID taking u for granted..

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teriyaki

hahaha~~
very hard...>.<
she nw machiam gangster sibei scary de..
little bit thing nt suit her she can scream n shout n dun ignore mi anymore.. n i think my other fren will support her.. y!?
cuz my other fren oso lyk dat...
ask us to help her buy food n bring de plate back to stall..

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violette

ohh.. then why do u still wanna friend her or them leh..
u sure u can tahan all these nonsense in the long run?

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Calis

Hmm.. have a good talk with her. If she refuse to change, then there is no point continuing with the friendship. Be firm and draw a boundary. You have to demonstrate very clearly and explicitly that you are to be treated with respect and dignity as an equal.

teriyaki