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Old 23-07-2008, 10:56 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default From friend to lovers, how did it all began..?

care to share ? . i might learn some good knowledge..our of your experience..
for instance..how u both hang out until you both become very close..dinner , dinner , dinner. ,movie movie movie.. then what?..serious.. i really clueless what the next step should be..
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Old 23-07-2008, 10:59 PM   #2 (permalink)
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hold hands and kiss kiss.lol
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Old 23-07-2008, 11:00 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Default Re: From friend to lovers, how did it all began..?

you cant really get much knowledge out of this kind of stuff since everyone has their different experiences and it has to depend on how close the 2 friends are in the first place.

there are alot of different cases e.g

2 extremely close friends that end up being together just because they felt like it
2 strangers knowing each other and just getting together instantly for the fun of it
a 1 sided love affair where eventually the other party falls in love too

but basically the principle is

hangout hangout movie dinner/movie dinner romanticsomething in that order preferably.

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Old 23-07-2008, 11:09 PM   #4 (permalink)
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care to share ? . i might learn some good knowledge..our of your experience..
for instance..how u both hang out until you both become very close..dinner , dinner , dinner. ,movie movie movie.. then what?..serious.. i really clueless what the next step should be..
It really depends on how far is your "friendship" with her. Make sure that you're as close to her as possible but not too close as friends or love will never begin. When two friends become friends for too long, love passes them and they will never like each another. On how to deepen the friendship, go dinner together frequently... movies... find reasons to go out on weekends.. get involved with heart to heart conversations with her (this helps alot btw. girls give you a major pluspoint if they feel truly understood by you.)

When you're certain that your place in her heart is significant and sort of irreplaceable, drop the question.
Take her out to the beach at night and watch the stars and hear the waves feel the breeze and look her in the eye & say smth like "You know... I don't wanna be just friends with you."

With a little luck and emotion adrenaline rush, it just might work
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Old 23-07-2008, 11:11 PM   #5 (permalink)
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just grab her hand when the time is right.

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Old 23-07-2008, 11:13 PM   #6 (permalink)
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hmm... u really hafta wait for the right signals then u can ask for the relationship. it took me 7months to have relationship with my current girl. movie movie movie wont really work cuz once u guys are together, movie movie movie will happen agen which will make it boring at times. just be there for her.

Time will tell man.

Be patience and have confidence.
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Old 23-07-2008, 11:16 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Old 24-07-2008, 12:29 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Yea... be patient and wait for the right signals.
THings happen differently for different people.. so it's kinda hard to tell you how it really begins.
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Old 24-07-2008, 12:33 AM   #9 (permalink)
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care to share ? . i might learn some good knowledge..our of your experience..
for instance..how u both hang out until you both become very close..dinner , dinner , dinner. ,movie movie movie.. then what?..serious.. i really clueless what the next step should be..
sometimes friendship too close won't develop into relationship. Me and this girl is like damn close friend for 1 part of time after she broke off with my best friend. I had feelings for her and i can felt the same too but we 2 jus don wanna admit. Because she's my fren ex thats reason why its holding me back. After that, she got herself a bf and i sort of regret. But felt happy for her since she's my bestie.

Sometimes its good 2 b best friends instead of being lovers.

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Old 24-07-2008, 12:34 AM   #10 (permalink)
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You need the right moments to fall in love actually. Without the right timing, reasons or even atmosphere, even if u got the right person, it's hard to evenutally fall in love.

i had 2 bfs in my life...

the first one was him one sided loving me first. in the end, i got touched by his actions n how he is so nice to me and start to have feelings. then become tgt.

second guy (current) was a classic know-each-other-from-school, got to know each other, he will come see me n walk me home, eventually got tgt.

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care to share ? . i might learn some good knowledge..our of your experience..
for instance..how u both hang out until you both become very close..dinner , dinner , dinner. ,movie movie movie.. then what?..serious.. i really clueless what the next step should be..
?????
go movie movie n dnr dnr only then 1 2 develop further????
btw u r lookin into serious r/s or jux 1 2 play play????


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Old 24-07-2008, 07:38 AM   #12 (permalink)
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hmmmm u know what david.... i got funny idea on how our famous ppl will reply...
HAHA!!! got this funny thoughts.. HAHA JIALAT LA~!!!!! =X

famous person 1: just go piak piak woooo baby!!! piak!!!
famous person 2: aiyo y u troublesome... just bed her..!!! GO GO GO!! & give her love bite

aiyo... die la.... later they wack me =x

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Old 24-07-2008, 08:54 AM   #13 (permalink)
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thx.. more plz.. lolx..

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Old 24-07-2008, 09:20 AM   #14 (permalink)
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hmmmm u know what david.... i got funny idea on how our famous ppl will reply...
HAHA!!! got this funny thoughts.. HAHA JIALAT LA~!!!!! =X

famous person 1: just go piak piak woooo baby!!! piak!!!
famous person 2: aiyo y u troublesome... just bed her..!!! GO GO GO!! & give her love bite

aiyo... die la.... later they wack me =x
hahaha. soo true.
lols. can predict de.

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hold hands and kiss kiss.lol