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20-06-2007, 03:22 PM
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| | 소원
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What do you do if your good jiemei( buddy) is dating someone and that someone is already married with kids?
Recently, my friend has been taling about a guy she admires in her office.
At first i thought its just another normal guy.Later she told me that guy is married with kids.Gosh.then me dunno how to advice.I did told her its not wise to be third party,but she was unhappy with my *nagging*.
So how? | 
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20-06-2007, 07:14 PM
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| | HUAT ar!!!!
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if this is ur good friend, then my advise is please be prepared to have her calling you and crying to you over the phone very very frequently... coz she will sure get hurt in some ways.  To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
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20-06-2007, 08:29 PM
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| | Loves Marketing x33
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It's her choice. For me, I won't say a thing, even if she's my best of friends. For relationship, best not to advise. Cause you might be the cause of her regret. Everyone admits that love is wonderful and necessary, yet no one agrees on just what it is. | |
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20-06-2007, 10:43 PM
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| | Registered Members
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if me, i'll tell her not to.
there are many fish in the ocean, why must she go after one married guy?3
i'll tell her to look around some more.
maybe she'll find a better catch XP
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20-06-2007, 10:49 PM
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| | HUAT ar!!!!
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| Quote: | | | Originally Posted by princesssy | | | | | if me, i'll tell her not to.
there are many fish in the ocean, why must she go after one married guy?3
i'll tell her to look around some more.
maybe she'll find a better catch XP | | | | | aiya love is blind mah... you dunno women who fall in love are very scary creatures meh? all like eyes kena hit by stamp cannot see le. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
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20-06-2007, 10:58 PM
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| | Ice Princess
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If she's unhappy with your advice, then obviously she has no thoughts about his wife and kids. Has she ever been hurt by a love one before? Cos if she has then she's going to inflict equivalent or even more hurt to his family. To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. | |
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20-06-2007, 11:14 PM
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| | Loves Marketing x33
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| Quote: | | | Originally Posted by fuyumi | | | | | If she's unhappy with your advice, then obviously she has no thoughts about his wife and kids. Has she ever been hurt by a love one before? Cos if she has then she's going to inflict equivalent or even more hurt to his family. | | | | |
If the women and the married man are happy, why not?
Doesnt mean the one you're married to is definately the right one.
A father in an unhappy marriage is worse for the children. Everyone admits that love is wonderful and necessary, yet no one agrees on just what it is. | |
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20-06-2007, 11:25 PM
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| | I eat noobs
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most likely will tell her to stop it
maybe u can intro her some male friends of urs then she might divert her attention to someone new:biggrin4:
one of the things to avoid when ur working,i feel, is definitely relationships in workplace,especially this with married colleagues
not that im against it,but u can get embroiled into office politics/gossip for the very wrong reasons u didnt expect To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. | |
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20-06-2007, 11:54 PM
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| | 소원
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| Quote: | | | Originally Posted by fuyumi | | | | | If she's unhappy with your advice, then obviously she has no thoughts about his wife and kids. Has she ever been hurt by a love one before? Cos if she has then she's going to inflict equivalent or even more hurt to his family. | | | | | Hi fuyumi,indeed she is unhappy with my friends or me' advices.
That guy got no intention of divorcing his wife .I believe that guy just wants my friend for fling only. | |
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21-06-2007, 12:37 AM
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| | Experienced SGClubber
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Tell ur friend, good luck she sure regret it later. | |
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21-06-2007, 01:16 AM
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| | HUAT ar!!!!
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| Quote: | | | Originally Posted by uyen | | | | | Hi fuyumi,indeed she is unhappy with my friends or me' advices.
That guy got no intention of divorcing his wife .I believe that guy just wants my friend for fling only. | | | | | haiz... though human common sense will say tell ur friend to back away from this guy, but then we all know she wont la *experienced before*
guess this is woman nature bah... when we fall in love, we alway fall in real hard. unless you friend is willing to listen, else i can only say she need to be hurt in order to learn. we all grow up through the hard way dont we?:mellow3: To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
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21-06-2007, 02:13 AM
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| | Miss Petite
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it is natural for people to want to fall in love. and when they have, it will be difficult to stop them from seeing someone.. love is blind.
although you are certain the guy wants her for just a fling, your friend will not listen to your advice to stop dating him... until she has really suffered a very hard fall from the relationship.. which she will cry and require your shoulder for.
so if you really cant change her mind, the only best thing you can do is to be there for her.
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21-06-2007, 02:48 AM
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| | Experienced SGClubber
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well i guess its bestthat perhaps you gather a few gd frens and talk her round. things might turn ugly if she decides to go for the guy Life is full of ups and downs. But one has to learn how to stand up on his own and continue his path to attaining enlightment...:mellow3: :mellow3:
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