uyen

不要审问他

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　　有些女人老爱埋怨丈夫或男朋友什么也不告诉她。女人知不知道这其实是她自己一手造成的？
　　当男人兴高采烈地说起：
　　“我那天跟阿钟喝酒的时候——”男人还没说完，女人就立刻审问他：“你什么时候跟阿钟去喝酒？为什么我 不知道的？”
　　男人只好扫兴地说：“不就是星期二晚吗？”
　　女人一听到星期二晚，就质问男人：
　　“你不是说那天要加班的吗？”
　　男人哑口无言，那天晚上发生了什么有趣的事，也不敢说下去。
　　女人还不罢休，继续追问：
　　“除了阿钟之外，还有什么人？有没有女人？你们在哪里喝酒？”
　　男人听到这里，简直像一个泄了气的皮球，以后有什么事，他也不想跟女人说。他本来想和她他分享，结果变 成被她审问，然后还要向她解释。他为什么要自讨苦吃？不如干脆不告诉她。
　　女人想男人什么也告诉你，最好记着，当他说那天跟某某喝茶，你不要问他是哪一天。当他说那天跟某某吃饭 ，你不要问他在哪里吃。当他说那天晚上跟某某喝酒，你不要问他那个某某是谁。时、地、人，有什么重要？最重 要是他可以和你分享而又不用害怕被审问。
　　审问一个人，是法官的职责。不是女人的职责。

grinmonzter

Think should be able to ask after listening the whole story ba. But must ask in a tactful way.

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chinkai

Translation

Some women always grouse about how their husbands or boyfriends keep everything to themselves, but do they realise that this is because of them?

Here's an example.

Man: "The other day I went drinking with Ah Tiong-"
Woman: "When was it? Why didn't you tell me?"
Man (slightly piqued): "Ah, that was Tuesday night..."
Woman (on hearing "Tuesday night"): "Didn't you say you had to work overtime?!"
Man (dumbfounded): "..."

And so, whatever interesting things happened that night, he was no longer interested in telling her. BUT the woman just won't take it lying down.

Woman: "Who else, besides Tiong? Any other women? Where did you people go?"

At this point, the man was probably like a deflated balloon, and thought that he won't bother sharing anything in future. "I mean, what's the use? I just want to tell her about what happened, and it turned into an interrogation! Why bother? I might as well keep quiet next time!"

To all you ladies out there, if you don't want your partner to be like that, then please remember the following - what matters is that he is willing to share, not the details. If he says that he had tea with so-and-so, don't ask him which day it was. If he tells you that he had lunch with someone, don't ask him where it was. If he went drinking with someone that night, don't ask him who he went with. Give him some breathing space.

Above all, remember this, ladies: leave the interrogation to the law enforcers, it is not your job to do it.

皆さん、こんにちは。僕はチンカイです。どうぞよろしくお願いします。


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uyen

chinkai,thanks alot for the translation.^-^

genzo2106

well..guess its the tome of asking that is impt. Ask by all means but dnt ever make it sound like an interrogation

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uyen

ya,guys dont like interrogation especially from their g/f or wives.

For3ver

Good points stated.

lonerlost

Get more girls to read this! =x

fuyumi

Mmm... I don't think I'm like that...

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silencedreamer

haha i think i'm not tt extreme lahz.. at least i'll let him finish speaking first before asking him who he went out with etc..

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killtheblackkat

haiz used to do this mistake all the time when i was with my ex. then end up we quarrel alot.

but then at the same time its not we women like to pick bones in an egg... if the guy is honest bout his every act, then in the first place we wont find anything fishy le right? hmmm....

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uyen

hi.i agreed,if the guy was honest to you,.you wont go to that extent.But ,its still better to calm down down and listen,then observe.
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