burgerboi

this may (and i hope not) escalate into a flaming thread depending on ur view/opinion and of cos ur post

lets say a guy and a girl love each other, but the guy is a chinese christian and the girl a malay muslim, wad will they do? wad do u think they shld do? i hope i dun see sgclubber posting "they shld elope or drink poison and die together" lol, this is not romeo and juliet

shld the guy gif up christianity? or shld the girl turn back on the tradition of malay and gif up islam? or shld they gif up their love instead?

do race and religion have to be a barrier for love and relationship?

EDIT: this is a sensitive issue to some people, so i deeply apologize for any offense u mite have felt yea? its just a totally curious qns that popped into my mind while watching romeo and juliet

GreenSn0w

i think different ppl got different way of handling this kind of thing..
but i heard that if u marry a muslim..no matter what religion the other party is of..will still have to convert to a muslim..i think..

chinkai

This sounds like a radical situation. In the first place, they should have considered the differences in their faith.

But alright, if I'm the guy...I won't convert just for her. Don't ask me why, I just feel this way.

It's alright if I'm a free thinker, but not if I already believe in a religion.

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snoozy

Tough decision.. but i guess if both party wan to be together.. they already know wat religion their partner is.. so i guess they got their way to handle this..

*How come so many religion.. u have to ask question on this 2 religion.. =.="

burgerboi

its just an extremely random choice >.< no intended motive or meaning at all, BIG SORRY TO ANYONE FEELING OFFENED!!!!!!

snoozy

No worries..It jus that this 2 religions.. abit of sensitive to each other..so that why i said is a tough decision.

mrleech

I personally feel that religion is a big hurdle to cross. Should have settled that from the beginning. Less headaches in the future.

dj_ladyviolet

Hey burgerboi,to sidetrack a little, i noe of my fren's parents who elope to be together due to family objection(same race though). They had never return to their parents' hse eversince. but they don regret it, they are glad for their choice they made. Love is almighty. It gies u strength to do wat u think it's impossible and unbelieveable.

In this case, i'm not in the situation to say if they should give up on the relationship or religion. it's a hard choice since christianity/islamism might be deeply etched in their roots.

My POV: if they really love one another, they might jus want to forsake their religion? Provided, this doesn't become a hot topic to argue over durings tiffs/quarrels..

*just 2 cents of worth*

silencedreamer

its a rare case lahz.. but i have 2 friends who are still together now.. the guy is a malay, the girl is a chinese christian.. the girl told me tt she won't be the one converting, but from what i know, muslims can't convert or else they'll be thrown out of the family (tt's wad i've heard from some malay frens). n its almost impossible for a muslim to get married to a non-muslim.
its a dilemma, n only the couple can settle it between themselves. the impt thing is tt they have to cope with their families viewpoints as well, so i guess its gonna be a tough decision when they really plan to get married..
for me.. i'm a free-thinker, so i just need to convert to muslim to get married to my bf lahz..

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chinkai

Just curious, how are they doing now?

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janice

Well I have a malay friend parents who mum is malay, dad chinese and her dad convert to muslim bcos of her mum so if they really love each other they willing to do anything for each other I also got an indian friend who his brother married a chinese wife too so as long as they love each other sure can overcome any problems.

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