Weitat1988

Okay okay bare with me i will try to not make this thread wordy

so last nite there was a gal , who used to hang out with , as we were working colleague.
called me , she was crying badly (one of worst i heard in my life) barely hear anything

Conversation log

Me:hello?
Crying Gal: T.T(started crying aready)
Me:erm wad happen?
Crying Gal: T.T + uttering gibberish
Me:claim down i cant really hear u , so wad really happen?
Crying Gal: crying + gibberish again (manage to catch a word scold this time OH YES!!!)
Me:who scolded u ?
Crying Gal: T.T T.T T.T x 1000000 now ( her crying reached her peak)
Me: ... =/ was it something i said ?
Crying Gal: u gona sleep soon?
Me: yea in awhile i guess , i could stay up thou (its 4am aready and i got sch at 7)
Crying Gal: i think i will call u back tmr ba
Me: alrite call me when u are feeling a little better ba

Oh ya , this is not the first time i encouter something like this
i could still try my best to cheer afew of them up
as i understand what they were trying to tell me (yep they cried too but not as bad..)
i wanted to help , but i cant understand the situation this time (all i heard is 55555555 this time =~)
i dun wanna be labeled a jerk that doesn't care lols ~

hope i can understand what she trying to tell me tonite ba *pray hard and cross finger*

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icyOrange

LOL. dont worry dude. it happens all the time. Just get 'em to calm down and assure them its gonna be ok. Even tho it sounds gibberish, just say ok and calm down abit or sth like that. LOL. they just need a listening ear and comforting words from u. So just do your thang..GL!

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ElPresidente

Hmmm. I think that was the best way to handle it. Satisfied her enough.

Taki

Get ready a translator of alien language . lol . But seriously speaking, just being with her , mentally , is itself , already very encouraging . There are guys who just hung up without even listening to whats really going on . Serious ! , i had a few friends like that , utter jerk .

corp25

maybe meet her out.. atleast you can have a face to face talk.. and ask her what happened.. that way you will understand more

freedomkira

Hehe, maybe she's trying to tell u, u goin be a Papa... lol! Kidding la. Jus start by saying wat is it abt? Feel free to pour it out...

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Weitat1988

*cough cough* i choked on my mango juice juice when i saw this roflmao NOooo such thing man

well think of it i am not that bad eh , at least i didn't instanly hang up the phone =X
but ppl who did that are really ... imagine someday when u are in need of someone to talk to and they did this to u .. it will hurt like hell i guess

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water-sprite

When a lady is upset, she just wants a listening ear.
So she could be crying, talking gibberish, whining alot, ranting off like a vulgar mad woman....
BUT all she wants is a listening ear so just shut up and listen, talk only when required.
Don't offer unnecessary solutions cus you might just piss/upset her even more.

diesopain

Yep and dun tell her he is not worth it there are better guys out there....this is base on the assumption of BF break-up with her or something like that....she just want u to listen and console her and not putting salt on her wounds.....

if is other problems like family then just listen.yeah

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freedomkira

hahahhahaha, indeed! Only a woman knows woman. All u've to do is pick up the phone, on the speaker, carry on with ur other routine. LoL! (kidding)

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fuqker

grab ur chips,green tea and psp for a 3hr marathon.
ps.chew softly

water-sprite

Actually also learnt more of that in social psychology class too

freedomkira