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Old 13-07-2007, 03:50 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default can you stand it?

can you stand your bf/gf lying to you?

will you forgive him/her?

how many chance will you give him/her?
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Old 13-07-2007, 03:51 PM   #2 (permalink)
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No.

One lie and that's it.

However you might want to understand why he/she lied =) if it is a flat lie, dump him/her now! not later as you will be forced to!


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Old 13-07-2007, 03:53 PM   #3 (permalink)
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depend on what kind of lies... a 'white' lies, or a 'black' lies... =)

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Old 13-07-2007, 03:55 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Old 13-07-2007, 04:29 PM   #5 (permalink)
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No.

One lie and that's it.

However you might want to understand why he/she lied =) if it is a flat lie, dump him/her now! not later as you will be forced to!
Ooo...but if you really love him/her will you still think over again?
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Old 13-07-2007, 04:30 PM   #6 (permalink)
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depend on what kind of lies... a 'white' lies, or a 'black' lies... =)
let's take it as a white lies...can you still forgive him/her?
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Old 13-07-2007, 04:31 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Ooo...but if you really love him/her will you still think over again?
That's what I meant. Do it NOW or you'll be forced to anyway in a later date =)

But what do I know, of course if we are in that spot it will be easier said than done.


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Old 13-07-2007, 04:31 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Ooo...but if he/she lie you you again...will you forgive him/her again?
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Old 13-07-2007, 04:33 PM   #9 (permalink)
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That's what I meant. Do it NOW or you'll be forced to anyway in a later date =)

But what do I know, of course if we are in that spot it will be easier said than done.
Ooo...
that means you will not forgive lor?
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Old 13-07-2007, 04:43 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Default Re: can you stand it?

depends on what he lied bout... but most of the time i think i will forgive la. but then i will not forget the fact that he did lied.

i'm pretty sensitive when it comes to such lying and bluffing issues... once he lied, there will forever be a scar on the relationship...


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Old 13-07-2007, 04:45 PM   #11 (permalink)
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My bf always lie abt he remember smth tt i said or smth tt happened quite long ago when he really can't remember. I felt it is quite ok. Coz he really can't remember alot of stuffs. haha.
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Old 13-07-2007, 05:01 PM   #12 (permalink)
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depends on what he lied bout... but most of the time i think i will forgive la. but then i will not forget the fact that he did lied.

i'm pretty sensitive when it comes to such lying and bluffing issues... once he lied, there will forever be a scar on the relationship...
Ooo...then how many chance will you give?
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Old 13-07-2007, 09:02 PM   #13 (permalink)
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My bf always lie abt he remember smth tt i said or smth tt happened quite long ago when he really can't remember. I felt it is quite ok. Coz he really can't remember alot of stuffs. haha.
Ooo...but it's not something that bad...
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Old 13-07-2007, 10:50 PM   #14 (permalink)
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If he/she lies then your the one who will live with it.. Trust does not come without honesty... If he/she not honest with you now, He/she probably wont ever be.. Cant go through a relationship like that. Dump him/her if he continue.

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