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Old 26-08-2007, 05:40 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Enjoy reading guys.. A very meaningful short and simple articles to share.. Hope you guys will like it..

"Losing in love is like losing in chess; the more you play, the more you learn"


I think few things are as painful as the end of a relationship. When a relationship ends it is a mini-death. It marks the end of shared love, the end of something that has become a part of you. This end is filled with grief, anger, rejection and depression. Even in cases where one or both parties feel a sense of relief because something that caused pain is now over, they still must go through a period of grieving.

Breakups come in many ways. You can be left, or you can be the one who leaves. You can find out directly or indirectly, like finding your love with someone else.

People break up by writing letters, by phone or in person. It can be a slow death or a fast one. No matter how it happens, it hurts.

We will hear about some of these endings and how they were handled. If you are currently nursing your wounds from the loss of a relationship,finding out that you aren't alone will ease the pain a little. The most important thing you will get from life experience is the knowledge that this, too, will pass.
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Old 26-08-2007, 05:46 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Breaking up by sms seems the easiest yet its the rudest..:shifty3:
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Old 26-08-2007, 07:48 PM   #3 (permalink)
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i got a friend, break up with boyfriend on friday, then saturday patch up? its lame lol
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Old 26-08-2007, 08:20 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Breakup isn't that hard for some people though.

Many won't brood over breakup, its like, just another thing to be happened and find a new one.

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Old 30-08-2007, 12:15 AM   #5 (permalink)
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any breakup techniques to share?


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Old 30-08-2007, 12:27 AM   #6 (permalink)
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any breakup techniques to share?
I guess is about reflecting and moving on? No matter what, don't run away from it. The more you do, the more it's obvious to you.:speechless:

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Old 04-09-2007, 11:46 AM   #7 (permalink)
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hmm yeah i think sms is the easiest way...hmmm msn also..hmmm but not good...hmmm but i think it's better to think thoroughly before acting it out...it's not a game...it hurts somone u loved...hmm
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Old 04-09-2007, 11:37 PM   #8 (permalink)
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hmm yeah i think sms is the easiest way...hmmm msn also..hmmm but not good...hmmm but i think it's better to think thoroughly before acting it out...it's not a game...it hurts somone u loved...hmm
Is the easiest way but is the can be the most worst way if the other party misunderstood ur sms.. Best way is to face to face better bah..

I agree with u saying its not a game.. But there's still ppl out there treating it as a game.. Maybe those are not yet grown up bah..

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Old 04-09-2007, 11:46 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Silent break is the worst.. I think, Becos that happen to me, he jus MIA like that.. worst is he dont bother to tell you wat is happening and you jus hang there dont know what to do. And after sometimes, he jus contact you back and wan to be with you again. Selfish Prick!!!

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Old 04-09-2007, 11:51 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Any breakdown in a relationship is hard and hurt. No matter who decides to break off with who, it is still the best to talk face to face. Receiving the news thru SMS, MSN or thru a mutual friend hurts even more

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Old 05-09-2007, 12:00 AM   #11 (permalink)
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Silent break is the worst.. I think, Becos that happen to me, he jus MIA like that.. worst is he dont bother to tell you wat is happening and you jus hang there dont know what to do. And after sometimes, he jus contact you back and wan to be with you again. Selfish Prick!!!
Dont be sad or angry gal.. Sometimes things turn out like tat de.. Just move on can le.. Cheerss

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Old 05-09-2007, 01:23 AM   #12 (permalink)
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Dont be sad or angry gal.. Sometimes things turn out like tat de.. Just move on can le.. Cheerss
Thanks ht.. me not angry or sad .. that happened long time ago. And I m glad that I make the decision to leave him. :biggrin4:

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Thanks ht.. me not angry or sad .. that happened long time ago. And I m glad that I make the decision to leave him. :biggrin4:
Yup.. Just move on with your life and dont look back can le.. Haha.. Take care ah gal.. Cheers..

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Old 06-09-2007, 02:12 PM   #14 (permalink)
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