Go Back   Singapore's Online Community - Singapore Forums > Leisure & Entertainment > Love & Relationships
Register FAQ Member List Calendar Mark Forums Read

Love & Relationships
Tips and advice for love and relationships.


Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 25-06-2007, 11:09 PM   #1 (permalink)
titanic1912
dive dive
titanic1912 is on a distinguished road
 
titanic1912's Avatar

Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 521
iTrader: (0)
My Mood:
Gender:
Zodiac Sign:
Country:
Location: Toa Payoh
SGC$: 142.53
Bank: 302.11
Total SGC$: 444.63
Default What if your bf never gives in?

Wad do you ppl think if a bf seldom gives in to his gf?

eg 1. if gf asks him to change for her (for the better of cos), he said "this is me wad, change liao not me already. u should accept the way i am now"

eg 2. gf asks him whether can he come her area for a meetup, he asks "why you cannot come over instead?" (FYI one in tampines and one in toa payoh)

eg 3. gf asks him to take her bag for her cos it's heavy, he said "my bag heavier than yours, or you wanna exchange?"

eg 4. whenever gf is unhappy, he will assume that his gf is giving him attitude. and then he will say "you affected my mood by giving me attitude"

Opinions?

Last edited by titanic1912 : 25-06-2007 at 11:10 PM.
titanic1912 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 25-06-2007, 11:18 PM   #2 (permalink)
uyen
소원
uyen has a spectacular aura aboutuyen has a spectacular aura aboutuyen has a spectacular aura about
 
uyen's Avatar

Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 13,769
iTrader: (0)
My Mood:
Gender:
Zodiac Sign:
Country:
Location: Singapore
SGC$: 9,288.62
Bank: 1,683.67
Total SGC$: 10,972.29




Default Re: What if your bf never gives in?

hi buddy,i think its really hard to ask him to change.所谓:江山易改,本性难移。
如果他不时迁就你,这段感情迟早会有问题。

Last edited by uyen : 25-06-2007 at 11:20 PM.
uyen is offline   Reply With Quote
Sponsored links
Old 25-06-2007, 11:22 PM   #3 (permalink)
titanic1912
dive dive
titanic1912 is on a distinguished road
 
titanic1912's Avatar

Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 521
iTrader: (0)
My Mood:
Gender:
Zodiac Sign:
Country:
Location: Toa Payoh
SGC$: 142.53
Bank: 302.11
Total SGC$: 444.63
Default Re: What if your bf never gives in?

im really puzzled. is someone whom said all these REALLY loves his gf??
titanic1912 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 25-06-2007, 11:25 PM   #4 (permalink)
xiaopillow-
BBall L0ver
xiaopillow- is on a distinguished road
 
xiaopillow-'s Avatar

Join Date: Jan 2007
Posts: 2,942
iTrader: (0)
My Mood:
Gender:
Zodiac Sign:
Country:
Location: Bukit Purmei
SGC$: 1,121.35
Bank: 1,272.89
Total SGC$: 2,394.24




Default Re: What if your bf never gives in?

if he wants his gf to change, he shld give an effort to change too lor. this kind of attitude..

anti-soccerplayerswhoinvadethebballcourt D:
xiaopillow- is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 25-06-2007, 11:26 PM   #5 (permalink)
lonerlost
Experienced SGClubber
lonerlost is on a distinguished road

Join Date: Apr 2007
Posts: 1,436
iTrader: (0)
Gender:
Zodiac Sign:
Country:
Location: singapore
SGC$: 467.80
Bank: 0.00
Total SGC$: 467.80
Default Re: What if your bf never gives in?

Change bf lor =x
lonerlost is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 25-06-2007, 11:26 PM   #6 (permalink)
uyen
소원
uyen has a spectacular aura aboutuyen has a spectacular aura aboutuyen has a spectacular aura about
 
uyen's Avatar

Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 13,769
iTrader: (0)
My Mood:
Gender:
Zodiac Sign:
Country:
Location: Singapore
SGC$: 9,288.62
Bank: 1,683.67
Total SGC$: 10,972.29




Default Re: What if your bf never gives in?

Quote:
Originally Posted by titanic1912
im really puzzled. is someone whom said all these REALLY loves his gf??
hmm..some guys dont know how to express themselves .If he always like this then this might be a sign of >breaking up< .
Guys will pick fights with their girls to make them go away.
Buddy,dont worry,this is just my point of views,you should observe him ..
uyen is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 25-06-2007, 11:28 PM   #7 (permalink)
vgohyk
the-vag.com
vgohyk has a spectacular aura aboutvgohyk has a spectacular aura aboutvgohyk has a spectacular aura aboutvgohyk has a spectacular aura about
 
vgohyk's Avatar

Join Date: Nov 2004
Posts: 5,188
iTrader: (8)
My Mood:
Gender:
Zodiac Sign:
Country:
Location: Singapore
SGC$: 579.25
Bank: 482.21
Total SGC$: 1,061.45




Default Re: What if your bf never gives in?

Quote:
Originally Posted by titanic1912
eg 1. if gf asks him to change for her (for the better of cos), he said "this is me wad, change liao not me already. u should accept the way i am now"
If he prefers to stay as who is he despite him being attached, if he is unwilling to change for the better for his girlfriend or for the relationship, then chances are, he is almost 99% not ready for a commited relationship. He shows no respect and more or less he will be a male chauvinist. He wants things to be perfect, with or without you. He wants YOU to change instead of himself. Too bad, relationship isn't one-sided!

Quote:
Originally Posted by titanic1912
eg 2. gf asks him whether can he come her area for a meetup, he asks "why you cannot come over instead?" (FYI one in tampines and one in toa payoh)
What? is he a woman or what? So what if it's the new era now? Shouldn't he have some basic common sense that it's ALWAYS a right thing for a guy to fetch or meet at the woman's convenience?! If he truely loves you, he should be aware how dangerous it might be for a woman to travel along. Especially in the night. If he insist, well, so be it. Unless he's willing to wear a skirt, that is!

Quote:
Originally Posted by titanic1912
eg 3. gf asks him to take her bag for her cos it's heavy, he said "my bag heavier than yours, or you wanna exchange?"
Give him a tight slap and ask him go to hell! Tell him you'll exchange body with him then.

Quote:
Originally Posted by titanic1912
eg 4. whenever gf is unhappy, he will assume that his gf is giving him attitude. and then he will say "you affected my mood by giving me attitude"
Attitude? He is the one showing some idiotic attitude, not you. Everybody has mood swings, it just happens to vary. If he's not willing to give you the basic assurance, how can he be a 99% great bf or husband-to-be? You being unhappy is wrong, yet he feeling ridiculous is right. Where's justice?!

----------------

Not trying to be blunt, but am sure that guys should have the basic common sense to treat a woman well!

Last edited by vgohyk : 25-06-2007 at 11:28 PM.
vgohyk is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 25-06-2007, 11:34 PM   #8 (permalink)
clowny
Registered Members
clowny is on a distinguished road

Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 34
iTrader: (0)
Gender:
Zodiac Sign:
Country:
Location: Choa Chu Kang
SGC$: 19.40
Bank: 20.56
Total SGC$: 39.96
Default Re: What if your bf never gives in?

change bf lorz.
so easy...
this kind of bf can throw...
rubbish of the rubbish man!!!
clowny is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 26-06-2007, 01:55 AM   #9 (permalink)
shingshing
Experienced SGClubber
shingshing will become famous soon enoughshingshing will become famous soon enough
 
shingshing's Avatar

Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 3,282
iTrader: (2)
My Mood:
Gender:
Zodiac Sign:
Country:
Location: Geylang
SGC$: 1,072.78
Bank: 0.00
Total SGC$: 1,072.78




Default Re: What if your bf never gives in?

Quote:
Originally Posted by titanic1912
Wad do you ppl think if a bf seldom gives in to his gf?

eg 1. if gf asks him to change for her (for the better of cos), he said "this is me wad, change liao not me already. u should accept the way i am now"

eg 2. gf asks him whether can he come her area for a meetup, he asks "why you cannot come over instead?" (FYI one in tampines and one in toa payoh)

eg 3. gf asks him to take her bag for her cos it's heavy, he said "my bag heavier than yours, or you wanna exchange?"

eg 4. whenever gf is unhappy, he will assume that his gf is giving him attitude. and then he will say "you affected my mood by giving me attitude"

Opinions?
This guy just doesn't grow up.
shingshing is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 26-06-2007, 05:43 AM   #10 (permalink)
Royunster
Registered Members
Royunster is on a distinguished road
 
Royunster's Avatar

Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 97
iTrader: (0)
Gender:
Zodiac Sign:
Country:
Location: Ang Mo Kio
SGC$: 28.40
Bank: 100.00
Total SGC$: 128.40
Default Re: What if your bf never gives in?

Quote:
Originally Posted by clowny
change bf lorz.
so easy...
this kind of bf can throw...
rubbish of the rubbish man!!!
If bf's attitude dun change then change him loh!
Or might as well stay single for a while.
:rock:

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
FF 1.5 Patch -->
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
valign="middle" >
Quote:
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
FF 1.5 Patch -->
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
width="18" style="background-image:url(
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
FF 1.5 Patch -->
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
FF 1.5 Patch -->
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
class="smallfont">
过去属于死神,未来属于你自己。
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
FF 1.5 Patch -->
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
FF 1.5 Patch -->
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
width="18" style="background-image: url(
To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
FF 1.5 Patch -->
Royunster is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 26-06-2007, 06:49 AM   #11 (permalink)
killtheblackkat
HUAT ar!!!!
killtheblackkat is on a distinguished road
 
killtheblackkat's Avatar

Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 983
iTrader: (0)
Gender:
Zodiac Sign:
Country:
Location: commonwealth
SGC$: 217.97
Bank: 900.00
Total SGC$: 1,117.97