Backstabbed at work - Page 2 - Singapore's Online Community

**BaiMaYi** · 03-02-2007, 12:42 AM

Yap. got to open our eyes big and ear big also.

Another advice I want to share is: DUN TRUST ON APPEARANCE. If someone is very friendly and good. BEWARE! They up to no good one (mostly or all). Cos happen to me before.

	Quote:			Originally Posted by loonshi
	hi we r all on the same boat... dun b too upset le.. let it go bah.. frm nw on we mus reali open our eyes big n those personal things (e.g wat's goin on btw u n yr bf/gf, yr family stuffs, etc)better dun say to anyone.. cos u nv know. Reali.. frm personal experience.n Most importantly, dun ever tell anyone abt who u dun like at work. Cos u know.. Gossips kill.

**bWey** · 03-02-2007, 01:47 AM

Be extremely cautious. Don't even trust your close friends. That's why I kept some of my secrets to myself. So as not to get betrayed badly by them. And I do not expect them to trust me that much. I don't know if I will backstabb for my own benefits. But I try not to get tempted by this kind of unorthodox yet easy methods.

It's life, let's face it. where Guilty conscience are overwhelmed by reality. I prefer to prevent these things to happen on me.

**BaiMaYi** · 04-02-2007, 10:00 PM

Is true. I agree. Somehow you treat them like friends...but they are not....is so sad and heartbreaking. They just want you to help them to do somethings and not treasure the friendship. I now also "kan Kai" le. Sigh... Friends just can't be trusted. Put friends on top of my most important list, is somehow the wrong way. :cry3: Sighhh....think only can trust yourself le.

	Quote:			Originally Posted by bWey
	Be extremely cautious. Don't even trust your close friends. That's why I kept some of my secrets to myself. So as not to get betrayed badly by them. And I do not expect them to trust me that much. I don't know if I will backstabb for my own benefits. But I try not to get tempted by this kind of unorthodox yet easy methods. It's life, let's face it. where Guilty conscience are overwhelmed by reality. I prefer to prevent these things to happen on me.

**fuyumi** · 19-03-2007, 07:02 PM

that's why it's always important to handle people more effectively

**Oppsgal** · 13-06-2007, 10:52 PM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by loonshi
	hi we r all on the same boat... dun b too upset le.. let it go bah.. frm nw on we mus reali open our eyes big n those personal things (e.g wat's goin on btw u n yr bf/gf, yr family stuffs, etc)better dun say to anyone.. cos u nv know. Reali.. frm personal experience.n Most importantly, dun ever tell anyone abt who u dun like at work. Cos u know.. Gossips kill.

But if the person ask? What will you tell them?

One colleague kpo, take my appointment letter out of my hand when I want pass to boss after signing, cos boss not around. He ask what I passing to boss want take a look. Dunno he got c how much salary. Is private and Confidential. I Snatch it back. :notimpressed2:

**legend** · 13-06-2007, 11:05 PM

keep low profile is the best... just do ur work, dun kpo other thing out ur work than can liao..

**FallingRain** · 14-06-2007, 02:46 AM

the wost is the smiley tiger hidden dragon that will Back stabbed you .... it MUST BEWARE... :cry3:

**genzo2106** · 14-06-2007, 10:26 AM

its a very common thing in office politics. So never tread on someone's toes, cos u nvr noe when you will be backstabbed by that person..

**magician** · 14-06-2007, 11:42 AM

its just easier said than done most of the time..
who doesn't wan to ignore & stay happy?
Those backstabber just wouldn't stop their attack..

**uyen** · 14-06-2007, 12:31 PM

most importantly.do not bad mouth others.

**Oppsgal** · 14-06-2007, 02:59 PM

Scare this scare that, then how? What is the safest topic to talk when in office with colleagues during lunch time? Cannot be don't talk at all rite?

**legend** · 15-06-2007, 07:14 PM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by FallingRain
	the wost is the smiley tiger hidden dragon that will Back stabbed you .... it MUST BEWARE... :cry3:

haha.. mi manager is one of them.. :handsup:

**Transformer** · 16-06-2007, 03:17 AM

backstabbed? fight back loh..... want to die all die together

**sex-on-heels** · 16-06-2007, 11:42 PM

Yea. Cruel isn't it.

And sometimes you have to take the blame for mistakes others created.

I guess the best way is to forge close relationships with your colleagues so that the next time they wanted to do that, there will be something called a conscience hindering them. You wouldn't want to betray your friends wouldn't you.

Even though that's not definite too. Sigh.