Are you a Virgin? - Page 9 - Singapore's Online Community

**AnimalSlayer** · 09-08-2008, 02:11 AM

i believe faithfulness is the most impt thing in a r/s

not by whether V or not V...

**belthazor_sg** · 09-08-2008, 03:18 PM

I think it ain't that important lah.. I mean everyone that was in their relationships be it now or previous ones believed and trusted their partners to a certain extend. Some more than others. And in doing so.. they may do what they felt or think was right at that time(giving themselves to their partners) hence.. their actions ain't really wrong. So I don't think it would really matter if someone is virgin or not. After all when you start dating some1, the first question we ask is not "eh.. u virgin or not?". Of course not, we only find out if someone is virgin later.. maybe even after we say "i love you" to that someone.

And if we just decided that we can't accept that some1 that we love/interested in/like, just because they aren't virgin, then we gotta ask ourselves.. what is it that we really love/interested/like about that someone.

I think that virginity is not something that we can use to judge if a person is bad/good/cheap/ etc, since there is a reason for things.. even pple who fool around on ONS n stuff.. they are just people who are lost and seeking something in life. They may change but they are not virgins anymore.. I'm sure that when they change and wanna be part of a proper life, they would want people to accept them as they are now rather than what they were.

**Zala** · 09-08-2008, 03:21 PM

Virgin. But non-virgin won't do any harm either.

**UglyQueen** · 19-08-2008, 10:02 PM

virgin is impt i think i am a lady myself i believe in reserving myself until i found the rite one but if u guys really found a virgin gal cherish them as nowaday hard to find a virgin as sex has been like going on at v.young age.
if a gal can reserve herself n u are the 1st its d best present u guys haf ever got.. not easy to find...

**nerdyome** · 20-08-2008, 09:29 AM

i'll prefer a virgin wife tho. but i think these days, not easy to find one.. haha

**MrFrog** · 20-08-2008, 08:48 PM

being a virgin is good , but being a non virgin is cool . nowadays very hard to find virgin boys and girls. RARE is the world

**Satoshi** · 20-08-2008, 08:51 PM

True. Virginity is so rare to the point i dun mind having girls who are non-virgins any longer.

**cseahwy** · 20-08-2008, 09:05 PM

i do care about this
because if my partner is not a V anymore
does he has alot of sex partner previously?
im quite concern with it

**Satoshi** · 20-08-2008, 09:10 PM

If hes nt a virgin. Obviously he has alot of sex.

let me give u an example. For example drugs, Once u start u want more. And more and more and yadda yadda.

There are only a certain few who can manage to withdraw themselves and stop.

my 2cents worth

shypineapple · 20-08-2008, 09:19 PM

this is 2008.

**cseahwy** · 20-08-2008, 09:23 PM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by shypineapple
	this is 2008.

i know its 2008?
why leh?

**eve124** · 20-08-2008, 09:35 PM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by belthazor_sg
	I think it ain't that important lah.. I mean everyone that was in their relationships be it now or previous ones believed and trusted their partners to a certain extend. Some more than others. And in doing so.. they may do what they felt or think was right at that time(giving themselves to their partners) hence.. their actions ain't really wrong. So I don't think it would really matter if someone is virgin or not. After all when you start dating some1, the first question we ask is not "eh.. u virgin or not?". Of course not, we only find out if someone is virgin later.. maybe even after we say "i love you" to that someone. And if we just decided that we can't accept that some1 that we love/interested in/like, just because they aren't virgin, then we gotta ask ourselves.. what is it that we really love/interested/like about that someone. I think that virginity is not something that we can use to judge if a person is bad/good/cheap/ etc, since there is a reason for things.. even pple who fool around on ONS n stuff.. they are just people who are lost and seeking something in life. They may change but they are not virgins anymore.. I'm sure that when they change and wanna be part of a proper life, they would want people to accept them as they are now rather than what they were.

WISE THINKING..

	Quote:			Originally Posted by cseahwy
	i do care about this because if my partner is not a V anymore does he has alot of sex partner previously? im quite concern with it

What matters is the present not the past..

**Satoshi** · 20-08-2008, 09:40 PM

lol he tryin to say 2008 = new age. Less conservative.

On the other hand. If u are a virgin in Japan. U are a laughing stock. 0.0

**eve124** · 20-08-2008, 09:58 PM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by Satoshi
	lol he tryin to say 2008 = new age. Less conservative. On the other hand. If u are a virgin in Japan. U are a laughing stock. 0.0

Maybe that's the culture different...

**Satoshi** · 20-08-2008, 10:11 PM

Ya totally. In japan there is a festival. A penis festival?

Or is it a god. Cant really rmb but the whole festival is abt the male anatomy

**Wayne** · 20-08-2008, 10:38 PM

Well, there is a saying: when comes to sex, guys won't mind who the gals is, as for gals, they do mind n choose who the guys is. U tink so?

**Lancelot** · 24-08-2008, 12:03 PM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by Swirl_Circle
	Wat does virginity means to u guys? Does losing ur virginity means a big deal anymore? It seems to be a headache for guys when they took their gf's first time away.... Virgin/not virgin----------- Do u care if ur gf/bf is not? * no offend here... Just sharing views....

Virgins make for really lame sex and lame after-sex. Never have sex with a virgin if you can possibly help it since for the first 5 times, it will suck for both of you and the first 8 or so for him/her.

Thus, spare yourself the trouble.

**nerdyome** · 25-08-2008, 03:15 PM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by Lancelot
	Virgins make for really lame sex and lame after-sex. Never have sex with a virgin if you can possibly help it since for the first 5 times, it will suck for both of you and the first 8 or so for him/her. Thus, spare yourself the trouble.

wahlao. how can these be troubles!!

**-Fairytale-** · 25-08-2008, 03:18 PM

I'm not but I don't mind one~

**jujuhippo** · 25-08-2008, 03:21 PM

IMO, i feel being virgin is impt, and i'm determined to keep mine till marriage.

for guy, if i noe he's no longer a virgin, just feel kinda weird. like as if he might go have affair during marriage etc.

same case if i'm a guy, and the girl i'm gonna marry, must be a virgin no matter what.. to me, being not a virgin just shows how much respect she has for herself..