loveyunki

Hey, can someone please give me some advices?
My bf and I had broke up for 3 months already...
During these 3 months, we met up a few times.
When we go out together, I feel that we can go back together again.
And I feel that he's happy when we are together.

For me, I really wish that we can be together again.
But, this time, its up to him to make the decisions. I dont think he wants a patch back.
But I feel that he still cares for me.

He read my blog everyday.
What does this means? Is he just interested in what's gg on after the break up?
Or does he still cares?

Sometimes, I really miss him alot.
But when I thought of all the past actions he did, I hate him.
I guess I am really mentally unsound.

I tired very very hard to move on.
But I still cant forget him, I still cant move on.

Can anyone tell me is there a chance we will be together again one day?

cute wormz

maybe he treats u as a gd friend now and its perfectly all right for gd friends to read each others blog....

maybe u can ask him whether the 2 of u have any chances to be back again, it may be hard to ask lah, but since u still cant forget abt him then dun care abt ur pride and try ur best to let u 2 get back together....

diesopain

there is no good friends when two broke up for a reason,if he reads ur blog everyday thats way over good friends line especially when both of u are once couple....the best is to confront him face-to-face man-to-woman its better to feel the pain than harbour false dreams and deluding urself....

then again if he manage to confess to u that he still have feelings for u then u also nid to reflect back what are the factors that cause the relationship to broke up in the 1st place & LEARNT from it....and also both of u nid to accept the fact that the previous kind of feeling the both u share ll' be different even when u patch back....otherwise it wont work it ll' juz keep breaking and patching to a no point of return......

kohht

well,i think is aright. but i think the patch,is abit hard to be together back.

so maybe try talk to him and ask him how is he.

hope you guy make patch again

good luck~

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Shyraiiyann

I totally agree with wad you,
i broke up wif my bf a week ago, is now with another guy but i still read his blog when i'm free, i just wanted to make sure he moved on coz he has been pestering me like mad.

as for your case, why dont u both talk face to face?
dont miss this, sometimes love itself is all abt timing..

SG FTW!

MiRyung

Best is to talk it over with him. No point tormenting yourself wif questions. Find out from him.

kien0203

oh gosh, i read one of my friend's blog everyday....and he is a guy.....and i think i started to miss him too....kidding

well, time will heal everything, you will be just fine after some time.

Ploke

IMO, I don't think he is REALLY interested. He is sort of hesitating. Unsure of whether to let go or not. He wants to patch back. But he thinks, is that really what I want? Sometimes, you got to make the decision. Men can be rather indecisive at times. He doesn't really love you, but still he doesn't want to hurt you.

I think in order to move on, you shouldn't even meet up with him It's definitely wrong. How to move on when you are still seeing him?

Just my 2cents worth.

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LuXune

Why did u and him break up? what caused it? maybe theres a chance, depending on the reason why u 2 break up

shirodas

yea actually it all lies on the reason of breaking up first

finaldust

I think read blog quite common bah doesnt mean much

to fall in love is always easy
to start a relationship is always simple
to build it, is always tough
to maintain it, is 'better said than done'
to break off, is 'easier said than done'
to remain friends after u broke off, is never possible
to forget the memories is 'always doing but never succeeding'
to heal the pain within is hard and tough and never near simple
but one has to try to heal your own heart...

`BeRRies-*

we wouldn't know if u both will have a chance to be together anot de wors.
we can't predict the future xD
but u can.
by giving both a chance xD

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You made me realized how great love can be.

loveyunki

The reason he gave me when he broke up with me is:
He cant stand me controlling him anymore.

Seriously, I dont think that's the case.
I admit I did control him sometimes, things like I dont like him going out for supper so late in the night, and only coming back home like 3am?
I dont restrict him to go for supper, but the thing is he can go out for SUPPER like 3,4 times a week.
And also, I dont like his friends alot, coz I feel that they are bad influence and he's in U now.

I dunno, maybe I think too much, maybe I am too sensitive.

I broke up and patch back with him many times already.
reason why I broke up with him is that he lied to me. Everytime.
When I asked him why he wants to lie. he just say he doesnt want to hurt me.
But I told him lots of times already, if he lies, and I found out, I will be even more upset.

loveyunki

And about reading the blog thingy,

sometimes he will read like 2 or 3 times a day.
Like if I didnt post any entry at the time he read, he will go back to check if i blog anot later in the day.

LuXune