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Old 21-07-2007, 04:13 AM   #1 (permalink)
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came across this:

when we were young, if the family is poor, ur parent could only afford to feed u with porridge+salted fish we ate w/o complains.
Now if u r poor and could only afford to feed ur parents with porridge+salted fish, they will say u ill treat them.

Do u agreed?
of cos its not saying all parents, pls get the meaning behind this post.

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Old 21-07-2007, 04:22 AM   #2 (permalink)
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cos they r parents afterall.. even though they feed us salted fish in e past, but considering the financial is nt gd, we r still fortunate... porridge n salted fish also need $$$ to buy..

way better than those kids who got abandoned by parents...

n since now living standards r way better, of cos we must provide even better environment for them.. let them enjoy life after decades of hard work

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Old 21-07-2007, 04:28 AM   #3 (permalink)
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yaloh, i agree with niko..

but well, lucky my mum dun complain.. hee!

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Old 21-07-2007, 10:44 AM   #4 (permalink)
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quite true. but now things have changed ma.

mess with the best, die like the rest.
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Old 21-07-2007, 11:46 AM   #5 (permalink)
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The standard of living has improve greatly since then.

During those time, they earn a meagre salary and probably have many mouths to feed.

Time had improve society and the standard of life. They should start to enjoy life after decades of hardship and hardwork.

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Old 21-07-2007, 11:47 AM   #6 (permalink)
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It doesnt mean feeding your parents salted fish and porridge is ill treating. The key question will be, are you eating the same food as them? if you are then the situation may be really bad.

And if its bad, they better not complain about it. people who complain, in my opinon have a solution. So if my mum complain about me ill treating her, she better have a solution to get us out of that sticky situation.


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Old 21-07-2007, 12:00 PM   #7 (permalink)
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NO. if you are really suffering and cant really support your parents, it's not right to say that you are ill-treating them. cos they should understand your situation as well, and should be supportive of what you do.
at least all of you will still get food, unlike others, who are incapable of having improper meals.
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Old 21-07-2007, 12:28 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by BiBi
came across this:

when we were young, if the family is poor, ur parent could only afford to feed u with porridge+salted fish we ate w/o complains.
Now if u r poor and could only afford to feed ur parents with porridge+salted fish, they will say u ill treat them.

Do u agreed?
of cos its not saying all parents, pls get the meaning behind this post.
yes, in general
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Old 21-07-2007, 03:08 PM   #9 (permalink)
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It really depends actually on what are you eating like what ican is saying and also it also depending on a lot of factors actually like for an example if their health conditions only allow them to take liquid food only cannot eat those things like macdonald or ten course chinese dinner. Of course cannot blame the kids in a certain way.

If the kids can afford it and they are not eating the same, then it is some problem actually
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Old 21-07-2007, 04:43 PM   #10 (permalink)
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i think we can show our parents we in the same boat,share happiness and saddness.

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Old 21-07-2007, 04:55 PM   #11 (permalink)
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