Jolene.Ying

Will you accept a guy's love if he is too.. direct/frank/straightforward?

I mean like example you have a mosquito bite on your face. & he says something like that. "haha.you have mosquito bite on your face here"


But he is 101% confirm that he likes you, one thing that ponders you other than he is too frank is that he is your ex and he's once a flirt.

But he changed now, totally la. And asks you for stead. Will you accept him?

Liars will always be liars.
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misterKIDDY

Yes , that sounds like me and i got accepted , teehee xD

MiRyung

I don't mind straightforward guys... it's better than someone who doesn't speak his mind even when things go wrong, because without communication the r/s jst breaks down.

Artemis86

I think since he has changed his old flirting ways, even if he's too straightforward & i still have feelings for him, i will accept bahz. Like Miryung, i prefer guys who say wats on their minds to guys who r very secretive. Hard to guess whats on their minds if they dun say - thats how communication breaks down.

A word of caution though - I'm nt very fond of 'patching back' e relationship. If u r sure that u still like him & wanna go stead with him, be sure that u 2 agree to start from afresh. What's in the past is already history - do not bring up the past for whatever reason, especially during quarrels, or else u guys will find it hard to let your relationship progress.

From what i have heard, most couples who patched up but did not let go of their past, are bound to have their past mistakes happen again. Its a vicious cycle if u dun break it - so start anew, get to know each other again as i'm sure both of u have changed even alittle, keep in mind not to repeat past mistakes & All the best!

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vgohyk

If he's straightfoward, frank, direct, I wouldn't mind.

But if he's my ex, then, NO.

xyrho69

lol if u like him and he has changed then why not give it a shot? its better then having a bf that doesnt be frank and doesnt communicate much with u even when there are problems arising

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Jolene.Ying

Thanks for the advice peeps.

But i must say lar, he's quite "shuai" . And we are studying in hell - & - heaven distance damn far. So i'm afraid ltr if he'll have 3rd party anot. >.<

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g2gcya

sure get it

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misterKIDDY

wah if distance far , try to make it up with more communication ;]

tkdg3

I don't think the problem lies with him being frank. Its how you react to what he says. If your a sensitive girl, mosquito bite also feel embarrassed, then i don't think you'd be very comfortable together. It's fun when you have a partner who you can tease and she can take it without breaking down in tears. Otherwise i'd feel like I have to watch every word i say and for a frank/straightforward person, it'd be very frustrating.

Btw, since you say he's changed and is no longer a flirt why should you worry that he'll stray? Have you no confidence in yourself that you worry he'll want to find someone better?

Amadeus

if he often says so, then it's his nature/personality. But i do agree that more communication would boost the long distance relationship.

Artemis86

Communication is made easy nowadays so u can always contact via sms or phone calls even if u guys cannot meet every day.

Having a goodlooking bf may pose a threat to your confidence, but since u said that he has changed, shouldn't u give him the benefit of doubt? Also u can show ur feelings of insecurity to him sometimes and see how he reassure u?

Furthermore do have more faith in yourself! Looks are not everything, i'm sure u have a great character and personality or else he won't be interested in u still. =P

C'mon, we girls should take pride of ourselves no matter our sizes and looks!

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kma

should be fine.....depend on whether u like that person anot.....a straightfw person hide less things in their heart but offend ppl easily....

yunise

For me, i won't patch back, but that will be because he is already my ex.

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