lovejs

I do have a fren whose attitude really sucks to max. She thinks everyone has to treat her like a princess and adores her. Never learn to be humble at all. Likes showing off herself and is an attention seeker. She gets slightly jealous if the people around her is better than her.

Her temper is really bad, pissed off by things easily. I told her alot of time to control her temper, she will just shrug me off and says "mood how to control ?! when i'm angry then i angry la" She never spare a thought on how the people around her feel. Whatever she thinks, she will think about herself only. She knows how to say other people are selfish, only think about themselves but she never points the finger back to herself.


She loves to repeat her questions everytime, i actually don't mind answering her again but what makes me irritated is whenever somebody ask her a question JUST TWICE ONLY, she will say "I don't like people to ask me a question so many times! It's annoying!" ???

She doesn't like to wait for people, she wants people to wait for her instead. If you let her wait, she will immediately call you and command you to hurry up. One time, she asked me to do her a favour by taking something from her house, and she didn't even thank me for that, she just tell me "you are gonna be late, better hurry up" i was angry upon hearing this.

I don't know how to deal with her, sometimes I totally ignore her and she'll keep bugging me. At times, she's good only but alot of time, her attitude just wants to make people slap on her face.

Princess Evelyn

mayb u shd hav a heart to heart tok w her..
r u d only one feelin tis way? wat abt ur other fren opinins of her?

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guantanamera

she ur friend hav 2 accept it ma some ppl is like tt in this world we need ppl like her 2 balance the society

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lovejs

yes, did try before cos she told me she doesn't have any friends in school. I'm not the only one feeling this, sometimes my friend ( who has a not-so-good temper ) will retaliate her but she will pretend not to listen. She's a person, no matter how much you say to her, she will still purposely does it for you to see.

I have accepted her for more than 8 years. So do you think I've accept her enough. If she's willing to listen and understand about her attitude, i seriously don't mind hanging out with her. But if a person is not willing to accept what you say and even thinks that you are saying the wrong things about her. What do you think ?

ktv_maniac

Bo bian lah... Can remain frens but not close loh. Ignore, avoid, do watever u can lah. After awhile, they will get e msg. Either they have to change or find frens who can tahan her attitude

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guantanamera

i will think tt dun bother le since 8 yr le wont change then no point changing her again juz let her do wat she wan

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princessLUCK

wow! wat a nice friend u r...

but if her character is really tat bad as u said... perhaps it is time u should consider u still want and need such a friend...

if u do hope she would would change for the better, yet after so many heart to heart talk (i believe u have done it), u should have a last talk to her in a very stern manner and inform her that if she contiues to stick to her usual behaviors, u would drop her off as a friend... then the next time she misbehave again, u can tell her this: u blah blah blah.. and i am really very upset abt it...

then u ingore her for awhile till she change a little and came knocking to ur door for a reunion...

but the drawback of this method, is the friendship between the 2 of you may fall off... if that is the case, i believe such a person is not worth to be a friend of yours, so perhaps u can drop her off as a friend...

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hooolahoop

is she the only child? alot of kids nowadays have such attitude.

perhaps you can tell her nicely that you do not like being ordered here and there, and you wish for a friend who treats you as an equal, not a superior who treats you like slave. tell her it is important to be mature, to be understanding to people around her, and that her attitude needs to be changed.

freedomkira

Strip off her title loh..lol kidding

Tell her straight dat which acts of hers made you guys uncomfortable. And give positive suggestion.

Note: Comment on the act, not the person.

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xiaoekin

if im u, i will f**k her up side down. let her cry, let her angry and dun care her. just walk away..

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aphx8o

xiaoekin so fierce sey..

anyway should just get a group of friends who are irritated with her and calmly talk it out with her. 8 years, 10 years also need to wake her idea up.

to look forward is a step to moving on.

yinggsterr

i dont think you and your friends should always tolerate her. last year a group of my friends taught her a lesson by creating a anti-her group, with CEO, secretary and etc etc. but till now her attitude still remains the same, and whenever we touched on the topic about her, we would indirectly use something to shoot her.