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　　男人害怕承诺，是因为他不是太爱那个女人，也是因为他太爱那个女人。
　　他不是很爱她，所以他吝啬承诺。她说：“答应我，你永远不会爱上别人。”
　　他不答应，因为他还没爱她爱到那个地步。为她而放弃其他机会，他还舍不得。他爱她没有深到把她当作生命 里最重要的人。男人的承诺是珍贵的，他不会轻易付出。
　　对着一个他不太爱的女人，他不愿意承诺，对着他深爱的女人，他却无法承诺。
　　他太爱她了，他很想承诺，却又害怕被束缚。一旦被束缚，也许他不会再像以前那么爱她。
　　他太爱她了，他很想承诺，却害怕做不到的时候会让她伤心。
　　他太爱她了，他很想承诺，但是一旦承诺了，就代表他要放弃其他幻想，也代表他要改变自己的生活。他不禁 怀疑，她是爱他这个人还是爱他的承诺。如果他不肯承诺，也许她就不爱他。
　　如果他深爱一个女人，有没有承诺根本是没有分别的。即使没有承诺，他过的日子也像跟她有承诺一般。男人 骗女人容易，骗自己难。他是一个有责任感的人。才会害怕承诺，他知道人要为自己的承诺负责。有些男人随便承 诺，因为他们没想过要负责。
　　承诺本来就是男人与女人的一场角力，有时皆大欢喜，大部分情况却是两败俱伤。

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p0125772

for me will be 他太爱她了，他很想承诺，却害怕做不到的时候会让她伤心。

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ower

Wah...can convert to eng mah?Dun tink here all chinese leh heheheh but im but i dun know how to read most of the words pai seh

uyen

sorry >.< my English cannot make it lah

ower

Hahaha wah lau...same la jus type wad u noe hahaha

silencedreamer

Guys are scared of making promises, because he doesn't love the woman that much, or because he love the woman too much.
　　He doesn't love her a lot, that is why he tries not to promise too much. When she says, "promise me you will not love another girl", he cannot promise, because he hasn't love her until he's willing to give up other chances. He hasn't love her until he sees her as the most important person in his life. A promise made by a man is precious, so he doesn't promise so easily.
　　He doesn't want to promise too much to a woman he doesn't love that much, but to a woman he loves too much, he cannot promise as well.
　　He loves her too much, wants to give her a promise, but he's scared that he'll feel trapped, and end up not loving her as much as before.
　　He loves her too much, wants to give her a promise, but he's afraid that when he doesn't do enough, she'll be sad instead.
　　He loves her too much, wants to give her a promise, but once he makes that promise, it means that he'll have to give up all his illusions, and change his life. He'll start to wonder whether she loves him as he is, or just love his promise to her. He'll wonder whether she'll love him even without his promises.
　　If he loves a woman a lot, it doesn't matter whether promises have been made. Its easy for a man to lie to a woman, but its hard of him to lie to himself. He is a man with a conscience, and that is why he is afraid of making promises. He knows that he will have to take responsibility for his promises. Some man make easy promises, because they have never thought of taking the reponsibility of fulfilling their promises.
　　Both man and woman have to make their promises, sometimes it'll have a happy ending, but most of the time both sides will end up hurting instead.
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hope the translation is understandable.. hehe..

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Dan

A man is afraid to make a promise is because he doesn't love her deep enough, and also because he love her deeply.

He doesn't love her deeply, so he is petty with his promise. She said: 'Promise me that you will not fall in love any other people.'

He can't agree to it, because he hasn't love the woman to that extent. To let go of other choices, he does not bear to do so. He hasn't love her till that she is the most important person in his life. A man's promise is precious, he also won't give in easily.

To a woman he doesn't love deeply, he does not want to promise, to a woman he love deeply, he is unable to promise.

He love her so much, that he wants to promise, but afraid to be binded. If he were to be binded, he might not love her like before.

He love her so much, , that he wants to promise, but he is afraid that he might hurt the girl when he is unable to fulfill it.

He love her so much, that he wants to promise, but once promised, it means that he had to give up his other fantasies, also that he have to change his lifestyle. He can't stop himself from thinking, is she loving him or his promise, if he did not make that promise, maybe she would not love him anymore.

If a man truly love a woman, a promise or not does not make a difference. Even without a promise, the life he live would be as if there is one. It is easy for a man to cheat on a woman, but it is hard to cheat on himself. He is a responsible man. So he is afraid of making promises, as he knows that one has to be responsible for his promise. Some men promised without thinking twice, because they never thought of being responsible for it.

Making a promise is a match between man and woman, sometimes it's a happy-ever-after, sometimes it's a tragedy on both sides.

DALA!
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Well, the last paragraph i have a little problem understanding it, what is a 角力? I just have to convert it to a match. Hopefully this translation is a pass.

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uyen

wah thank you all,so kind =D

icedolce

i agree with these 3 sentences the most...

AnD wE"LL LiNgEr oN, TiMe cAn'T eRaSe a FeELiNg ThIs StRonG, nO wAy yOu'Re EvEr gOnNa sHaKe mE, oH dArLiNg 'cAuSe yOu'LL aLwAyS Be My bAbY...

uyen

ya,me too

frinky

If a guy is really man enough, he should commit.. After all a relationship is like a challenge, if you don't try, you never know what are your mistakes.

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chinkai

So it's pretty sad that so many men nowadays treat their promises like dirt, nothing but to be trodden upon.

Thank you for sharing this.

皆さん、こんにちは。僕はチンカイです。どうぞよろしくお願いします。


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theright0ne

i feel like crying after reading.
mayb reflects abit to my bf.
after reading. i find it so true.
mayb girls must start to understand guys more
den they understand us.
and every time i realise something from my bf.
i will tear.
duno issit i easy tear or he really touches me.