Vyruss

Some Mistakes that ruin attraction and first impressions


1. Appear in your gym/yoga/soccer attire

Whatever happened to personal grooming and dressing to kill? The first impression of a person is formed within some say 2 to 5 seconds, some say 30 seconds, some say 5 minutes - but to sum it up - in a very SHORT time. Appropriate attire would definitely help you score some points.

2. Order your food before your date arrives or better still, start eating before your date arrives

Yes, I understand you might be hungry after a long day, but try to grab a quick bite prior to your date at the nearest sandwich bar if you know it’s going to be a late lunch or dinner.

3. Challenge your date’s religious, political beliefs or personal values

Till today, I still cannot figure out why people go on dates to pick a fight, especially over something that people could feel so strongly about. Keep it light, its a first date. Enough said.

4. Complain about your past dates/boss/mother/ex-spouse(s)

NOBODY likes to sit opposite someone who’s negative and constantly complaining. Like job interviews, always put your best foot forward on your first date. You might not be Mr./ Miss Sunshine, but at least present your most positive self on your first date.

5. Interrogate your date

What does your father do? Can you do housework? When do you forsee yourself settling down? Why did you quit your last job? Why are you still single? The key to a successful communicator is the ability to make the other person feel comfortable. Facing “a machine gun that keeps firing away” leaves the person with no space to breathe.

6. Not giving you date a chance to talk

Don't hog the entire conversation. Everyone wants some airtime to voice their views and share their stories. Doing ALL the talking will make you come across as "self-centred" or "boastful" which is a real put-off.

7. Whip out your handphone/PDA to split the bill into half - down to the last cent

You might not fancy the lady that much, or you are really broke this month. You do not need to pay for her share, but seriously there’s no excuse for such "cheapskate" and "ungentlemanly" behaviour. For the lady, remember to be genuinely appreciative if he pays or he could be put-off at the lack of manners

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Boo!!!

Shyraiiyann

i used to have an ex who has no fashion sense, seriously,
all the mismatches etc,
sometimes can close one eye, until the end he has to be OUT LA.

sucha disgrace

SG FTW!

sgalextoh

hahaha....
Got abit of idea what your ex looks like.....
Dressing in white sliky long sleves shirt with black tight pants, white belt and a pair of white shiny shoe hur???
Or worst....a t-shirt tucking into a pants with a pair of china made slippers.....
hahahaha....

genzo2106

good tips indeed..thks for sharing!!!

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angelzks

lol..standard dx for no fashion sense bahz..?
i have a friend who always appear the same like the highlighted above but he loves to wear Army boots..kaoz.. :speechless:

wish_mistress

i got a friend who loves to wear tight fitting pants and shirt too...then always wear LV/Gucci belt...with a pair of michael jackson shoes...then his hair is always fill with glossy gel... lolzzz

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uyen

Thanks for sharing^^

I think over dressing is not good,just be ourselves and everything will be ok.

人情味不是偏私而是博爱，

不是施舍而是关怀。

不是表面的礼貌，

而是内心的尊重。

Friends will bail you out of jail.but Best Friends will be sitting by you saying,
" that was awesome !"

Shyraiiyann

FOR A MOMENT I TOT U KNOW HIM.
not wif tight black pants, but white pants, and SLIPPERS.

yeah, all the mismatches, gross. :freakedout:

SG FTW!

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Tristanity

Lol, to me... my gf must know how to dress .. at least casually!

good points dude.

8) Engaging with ur own activites. Living in the world of your own

relentless pursuit for perfection;
thats taking a toil
in my health.

Somebody said they saw you,
the person you were kissing wasn't me.
And i will never ask you;
I just kept it to myself.
I dont wanna know;
if you playing me, keep it all a low.
Cause my heart can't take it anymore.

What do i do to make you love me
What do i do to make you care
What do i do to make you want me
Its sad, Its so sad,
Its a sad sad situation

Tristanity

Don't do them. Do opposite of what the sins state.

relentless pursuit for perfection;
thats taking a toil
in my health.

Somebody said they saw you,
the person you were kissing wasn't me.
And i will never ask you;
I just kept it to myself.
I dont wanna know;
if you playing me, keep it all a low.
Cause my heart can't take it anymore.

What do i do to make you love me
What do i do to make you care
What do i do to make you want me
Its sad, Its so sad,
Its a sad sad situation