| Quote: | | | Originally Posted by aphx8o | | | |
| while in a relationship it seems that you have become weaker.. but when the relationship is out, then you'll become more hard.. cause fear of failing a relationship is there.. then its a whole new cycle when the right one comes. | |
| | |
Very true....i think generally..when girls enter a r/s..they'll let themselves rely somewhat on their partners..in terms of emotionally and psychologically...when their partners leave them or the r/s is gonecase, usually girls have 2 choices - 1 to be stronger and hardened their hearts against other guys..or 2. go through r/s and another r/s, afraid of being alone, being lonely and being without someone to love.
Frankly girls are more vulnerable..cuz we are more likely to be swayed by our emotions and feelings. Even more so in a r/s i believe- cuz u r alrdy letting urself falling for him or alrdy in love with him..u wan him to accept u, love u so somewhat u'll want to please him too..when love is there...e risk is BIG..n if he ever hurts u or betrays u...
后果不开设想！
