Re: Guys/Girls : To Love or Be Loved maybe neither...
its heart-ache-ing to be with both kinds, both the one u love but dun love u, and the one who loves u but u dun love.
the one who loves u but whom u dun love....a part of me will be very appreciative for the love he gifs, but i wont ever be truly happy if im not wif the one i turly love. and since my heart is not fully wif him i may not gif WHOLE-HEARTEDLY nad not in the way one wold truly gif without restrains for e person he/she loves. so its NOT FAIR to him.
the one u love but dun love u.....i used to think a person can be happy jus loving the one u love, jus letting him feel my love, feel loved, even if he doesnt love me. but its really draining to gif but not get any love bac AT ALL....its really heart-wrenching knowing he doesnt love you...
its worst if he doesnt appreaciate the love u gif even if u dun expect anything in return. in fact, loving the person may not be the best for the person...he/she may be happier without u hanging arnd...
so, someone will suffer in both cases. tho each case is different.
CONCLUSION: 爱情要两情相愿。 |