She is at fault if you can prove that there was Proof Of Delivery.
2) that there was no transaction of her paying for the goods
3) you have a record that she have no intention to pay you or send the goods back.
with this 3 evidence proceed to the following
http://app.subcourts.gov.sg/sct/index.aspx 
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