| Quote: | | | Originally Posted by noti. | | | |
| I do agree with your statements. For a period of time after I got dumped over and over again, I hated every single guy and I didn't trust any of them. It felt that they were just out to cheat my feelings after having enough fun with me.
I do suppose problem lies within - to a certain extent. Over the years, I've come to forgive these guys. I mean, I was at a age when I was attracted to "that" kind of guys and kinda naive towards relationships or just plain childish. But now, turning back to look at it, it wouldn't have lasted anyway. Unconsciously comparing the past is something that's so hard to avoid. How can you not compare? Even though how much I tell myself that individuals are all different, I still compare ... at least it's not as frequent already lah.
It's just like when you start a new relationship, you've had a certain expectation of how a guy/girl should treat you/be treated. Where do you get that expectation from? Isn't it comparing or using the past relationship as a gauge? | |
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i heard this before: Men love to lie, Women love to tear
so .... don't simply believe a word spoken by men, or by me :biggrin4:
