Re: Whats Your View On Marriage Life? Thanks for all the repiles and views.
IMHO, ppl does change, nothing stays the same forever.
Marriage is bonding of 2 different unrelated person getting together and become a family. When the kids comes, the family is completed.
Before marriage, the loving mushy feelings of BGR is there. Things that you might not see or hear daily is your better half snoring, w/out make-up and his/her other bad habits like going to the toilet w/out flashing, etc.
The Mrs. stop taking care of herself in dressing, grooming, etc.
The blissful marriage life probably lasts until the kids arrived.
Couples starts quarreling about the kids, how to bring them up, education, money, in-laws, etc....
Start calling each other like the kids, "Mommy", "Daddy" instead of Sweetheart, Darling, etc.
After the kids arrived, the woman probably will put on weight and not slim down.
Sex in the early stage would be frequent maybe 3 to 4 times a week, as the marriage life grows, it could be like once a week or once a month or none at all.
Guys would take this opportunity to find another "dish" outside. Try to get back the "Lost loving feelings" when they were BGR instead of marriage couple.
Guys also need their private time with their friends over a cuppa or beer. Wife or "OC" will call and spotcheck.
The above is from a man's view. btw....I was married once before. เพื่อนสนิท - Peuan Sanit - ดูมัส - Doo Mat |