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**vgohyk** · 25-06-2007, 11:28 PM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by titanic1912
	eg 1. if gf asks him to change for her (for the better of cos), he said "this is me wad, change liao not me already. u should accept the way i am now"

If he prefers to stay as who is he despite him being attached, if he is unwilling to change for the better for his girlfriend or for the relationship, then chances are, he is almost 99% not ready for a commited relationship. He shows no respect and more or less he will be a male chauvinist. He wants things to be perfect, with or without you. He wants YOU to change instead of himself. Too bad, relationship isn't one-sided!

	Quote:			Originally Posted by titanic1912
	eg 2. gf asks him whether can he come her area for a meetup, he asks "why you cannot come over instead?" (FYI one in tampines and one in toa payoh)

What? is he a woman or what? So what if it's the new era now? Shouldn't he have some basic common sense that it's ALWAYS a right thing for a guy to fetch or meet at the woman's convenience?! If he truely loves you, he should be aware how dangerous it might be for a woman to travel along. Especially in the night. If he insist, well, so be it. Unless he's willing to wear a skirt, that is!

	Quote:			Originally Posted by titanic1912
	eg 3. gf asks him to take her bag for her cos it's heavy, he said "my bag heavier than yours, or you wanna exchange?"

Give him a tight slap and ask him go to hell! Tell him you'll exchange body with him then.

	Quote:			Originally Posted by titanic1912
	eg 4. whenever gf is unhappy, he will assume that his gf is giving him attitude. and then he will say "you affected my mood by giving me attitude"

Attitude? He is the one showing some idiotic attitude, not you. Everybody has mood swings, it just happens to vary. If he's not willing to give you the basic assurance, how can he be a 99% great bf or husband-to-be? You being unhappy is wrong, yet he feeling ridiculous is right. Where's justice?!

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Not trying to be blunt, but am sure that guys should have the basic common sense to treat a woman well!