Steven^_^

Originally posted by uyen.Translated as per request.Pardon some parts might not be translated to the exact meaning. :mellow3:

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~男人要的三份礼物~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

送礼物给男人是一件很头痛的事，那些什么都没有的男人，你根本不会爱上他，什么都有的男人，你又可以送什么 给他呢？

Giving presents is smthing that makes someone headache.If he got nothing,will u ever fall in love with him and on the other hand if he has everything,what else can u get for him?
　　
衣服、领带、皮带、手表、公事包都送过了，没有什么新意。送一辆新车给他，不是每个女人都付得起的，除非是 用他的钱。编织一件温暖牌的毛衣给他，也是好主意，可惜现在大部分女人都不会打毛衣。

Shirt,tie,belt,watch,briefcase,all given before,what else is new?A brand new car?Not every gal can afford it unless it's using his money.Knit a sweater for him sounds nice but it's a pity not many girls nowadays really know how to do so.
　　
每次想到要买礼物给男人，就觉得很无助，每一样东西对他来说，也许不过是锦上添花或者可有可无。送礼物给女 人反而容易，单是宝石和珍珠就很多种。

Everytime when the thought of buying a gift for a guy comes along,cant help but to feel helpless.It might not be smth that can bring sparks to his life but on the other hand it's so much easy for them to get a gift for gals,just diamonds,pearls etc are good.
　　
每当女人问男人：“今年生日你想收到什么礼物？”也是男人头痛的时候，他实在想不到自己还欠些什么，他所欠 的，根本是女人买不起的。

Whenever a gal ask a guy: "What do u wish to have this yr as ur bday present?"It might turn out to be a headache to them as they themselves do not know what they lack,what they really lack might not be affordable to the gals.
　　
最后，女人只好用一份礼物的价值来表达自己的心意，她花了一个月的薪水送一份贵重的礼物给他，男人虽然感动 ，却会认为这个女人太爱花钱，不是个贤妻良母。

Eventually,gals used the monetary value of a gift to represent their sincereity.i.e she used a month's salary to get an expensive gift for him.The guy might be touched but feels this lady loves to splurge,might turn out not to be a gd wife and daughter-in-law.


　　原来，男人最喜欢的礼物只有三份。
　　一顶高帽。不时向他送上一顶又一顶的高帽，称赞他、崇拜他。
　　仰慕的眼神。即使他做了一件很笨的事，你还是送上这样的眼神给他。
　　生命的安慰。让他知道，你会与他同甘共苦，你是他心灵的安慰。
　　他收到这三份礼物，就会送你很多礼物

So it turns out to be,what guys really wish to have comes in 3 components:

A high hat-A hat after another,to praise him,to idolise him.
Eyes of admiration-Even if he did smth silly,u still return the very same look to him.
Security and peace of mind in Life-Let him know if u gal will be with him through thick or thin,be his soul-comforter.

If he receives all this 3 "gifts",he will in return give u a lot of gifts.

You learn to love, not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly"