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　　常常听到有人慨叹：“我和他一起十年了，我还可以离开他吗？”
“十五年了，是有很多不开心，但是我已经花了很多青春在他身上……”
“都二十年了，离离合合，他对我也不见得好，但是，离开了他，我还有机会找一个比他好的吗？”
说这些话的人，年纪一点也不大。
跟一个男人一起十年，那的确是一段不短的时间，但是十年很长吗？如果你回头望，你才二十七岁，十年虽然很长 ，但是如果向前望，十年其实很短很短。
二十年看似漫长，它占了你过去的大部分岁月，但是如果向前望，假使你有七十岁的生命，你现在三十六岁，你还 有三十四年，比二十年还要有多出十四年，为什么你不可以做一个更理智的决定？
与其坐着嗟叹逝去的时光，不如勇敢迎接未来。两个人一起，日子过得开心，大家一起成长，那么，十年、十五年 、二十年，也恍如昨天。如果过得不开心，只是因为习惯了或者因为固执而不肯分开，那么，来日岁月，只会觉得 更难熬。
下一次，当你说时间太长的时候，不妨想清楚，跟你的一生相比，那是太长还是太短？

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often we hear people say: ''me and him together 10 years already.can i still leave him?
'15years passed,alot unhappiness,but i have spent alot time on him..'
already 20years spilt and patch up,he never treats me any better,but,if i leave him,will i still be able to find a better guy?'
The person who said this ,is just a young girl.
With a guy for 10 years,its really not a very short time,but is 10 years considered long?If you look back,you are only 27 years old.10 years realitionship is long but if you look forward,10 years is actually very short.
20 years seen long ,it occupied part of your youth,however,when you look forward,if you can live up to 70 years old.now you only 36 years old,you still got 34 years to go,compare to the 20 years,there is extra 14years.
Why cant you make a sensible decision for your future?
Rather than sitting here lameting the past ,why not be brave and welcome a better future.2 persons together,get along well and happy,growing and learning together,then,10 years,15 years,20years seen like Yestersday.
If 2 person together are unhappy,staying together just because of stubborness or its becoming a form of Habit..,then the future willbe tougher ,more unpleasant.
Next time,when you want to say time is long,please consider it carefully,compare to your total lifespan..is it too long or too short?


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