A man is afraid to make a promise is because he doesn't love her deep enough, and also because he love her deeply.
He doesn't love her deeply, so he is petty with his promise. She said: 'Promise me that you will not fall in love any other people.'
He can't agree to it, because he hasn't love the woman to that extent. To let go of other choices, he does not bear to do so. He hasn't love her till that she is the most important person in his life. A man's promise is precious, he also won't give in easily.
To a woman he doesn't love deeply, he does not want to promise, to a woman he love deeply, he is unable to promise.
He love her so much, that he wants to promise, but afraid to be binded. If he were to be binded, he might not love her like before.
He love her so much, , that he wants to promise, but he is afraid that he might hurt the girl when he is unable to fulfill it.
He love her so much, that he wants to promise, but once promised, it means that he had to give up his other fantasies, also that he have to change his lifestyle. He can't stop himself from thinking, is she loving him or his promise, if he did not make that promise, maybe she would not love him anymore.
If a man truly love a woman, a promise or not does not make a difference. Even without a promise, the life he live would be as if there is one. It is easy for a man to cheat on a woman, but it is hard to cheat on himself. He is a responsible man. So he is afraid of making promises, as he knows that one has to be responsible for his promise. Some men promised without thinking twice, because they never thought of being responsible for it.
Making a promise is a match between man and woman, sometimes it's a happy-ever-after, sometimes it's a tragedy on both sides.
DALA!
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Well, the last paragraph i have a little problem understanding it, what is a 角力? I just have to convert it to a match. Hopefully this translation is a pass.
