Woah, i read you people's post i damm scared sia!
I'm currently in a 8 mths+ rship wif BF,
My case is opposite one.
When he was chasing after me, he wil call like mad, every moment also want to talk to me, after i became his gf, i realised he chiong game like mad. He no longer want to push away a session of Dota because i want to talk to hiim. because of this we quarrel really really alot, imagine quarreling in the first 1st month of your rship...
Later, as days draw to him being in NS, he would spend more time being with me. just a bit more, cause we meet up more. but nevertheless, he is still the heckcare type, but i have to admit, he never once flare up with me despite the many temper i threw at him.
He also never like to hold my hand when we go out, imagine you first month only you never hold hands le.
i ask him before, he say i wan to hold i should hold him.
_l_ i was super dulan ok! MCP!
Now he's in NS, i realised this change, he calls me everynight, book out first one to call me, spend all the weekend with me, and he is the one who holds my hand first. One ocassion when i was having trouble with his aunt, and ignoring him, he actuali cried, beggin like mad. In the past when i talk to him about this aunt, he would ask me to ignore, when i flare up and leave, he would just allow me to leave. maybe he just scared ns gf run away.
butl,
From the lesson, i learnt i should never give up half way no matter how much i think this thing might just fade away.
Times are difficult, yes, but
You've come so far together, dont throw it away.
Have a talk and understand why the coldness, often in life, we take things for granted, and need a few reminders here and there.
Tomorrow must only get better, guard this love well because its part of your life girls!
