stanleyhuang

Good morning blitzboi..i've juz read through ur thread post..and i'm a little taken back by what is written...what u have given might be from the view point of an unattached person...i wouldn't classify love into romantic and compassionate...but i believe in love itself...are all love either romantic or compassionate...?if it's so...it would be awfully boring and wrong to be in love...coz u're either having a boring relationship or short and exciting one...which sums up what u have written in ur post...and at this point..it already sounds wrong to mi...

Love is all about that twitch..that pinch...that sour twist..that all weird feeling deep inside..that belonging...that thought...that emotion that gives u all ur words or expression...that feeling that sends u wild into tears or heat...etc etc...if u drew love on a graph...u would hit over the top today..and scrap the bottom tomorrow...it would be different everyday, every month, every year...u can't calculate or analyse love with maths gradient or statistics...

embarking on a love so sweetly and sparkling does not, even at the tiniest bit, define the length of the relationship, the life of the relationship, nor the end of the relationship...coz relationship is not defined by the start of it..but by the process, every little detail, and both the lovers...a beautiful sweet sparkling beginning onli define a good start to begin with...

the rise & fall of emotions and feelings in a relationship can be changed and there's no standard point or type of process...coz there are things like forgiveness, memories, faith, hope, strength, etc that makes every lover different...thus every relationship is different in at least one way or another...

true love cannot be reliant on the media to be projected to the public..but can be used as example to aid love in onli certain situations...but not in most...i've seen the most rash acts and impulse acts on the mass media...and those onli help in a very minority times..Movies, dramas, shows..they are meant for entertainment and does not project the actual reality...and, in fact, has shown a good gap between fantasy and reality...

i would agree with the fact that what goes up muz come down..no doubt about it...but what is down may rise up too...in simple terms..rise and fall all the time...applies for those who have hit the bottom too...it doesn't take romance to keep love alive...and love doesn't end when it reaches the bottom pit....it takes effort, time, and love itself to keep love alive...that's how marriages stay lovely and exciting even 40years or even 50years down the road...at times u feel like u hate ur partner...for all the wrong things or mistakes made..but u think of the happy memories and lovely ones...this is the point where love stays on and rekindles...love rekindles with a spark to start a flame once again..

often we would measure the love between 2 lovers with the time they were together...but what truly matters is what they have shared when they were together...they have shared their emotions...their feelings..their ups and downs..their lust...their hearts...their life..their presence...everything they have...that's what love is all about isn't it..? love is where time doesn't exist...

Let's put all these into reality and look around u...ur parents..ur friends..ur uncles and aunts...listen to all the stories...we start love with feeling love in our hearts...not thinking of the time in our mind...and love can be kept alive by our own efforts and love for our partner...

once again..i'll rephrase my question in contrast to urs...do u wan love that last a lifetime..?or has the start of ur relationship already decided how ur love would be till it ends...?

U Decide...~ :mellow3:

Def Leppard - When Love And Hate Collide