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**vgohyk** · 20-04-2007, 10:49 AM

	Quote:			Originally Posted by kotoko
	dun tink he is interested in me. what i am very lost abt is that he mentioned that he "cant be bothered" abt what happen to me when i confessed to him face-to-face. so, why is he so bothered abt who i like now? perhaps, he is happy that i have a changed of heart. i dunno. but what really made me so upset is that he treats my love like such a cheap thing. like i am someone who will give away her love easily. and we are friends... friends as in, hi-bye friends, no longer the close pals we were in the past.

In women's perspective, when a guy likes you yet you don't, and for a sudden you heard that he's interested in another girl, you'd eventually develop a curious feeling that "why does he falls for other girls so easily" and you'd find that he's pretty a "heart-changer". You want to know the truth, even though there's no love feelings involved.. you may observe him yourself, or even to ask around. Just for the sake of clearing your doubts on "why he is so... _______ " You may then feel a little regretful as you lost a "good friend" or someone who's worth your love, yet you just couldn't reciprocate.

However, in guy's perspective, this may seems oh-so different. Since he's being so arrogant about you liking him as he say he doesn't bother, then true enough, in this case he shouldn't even care if you really falls for another guy. Kotoko, in my view, I don't think he's worth your love. If he doesn't respect you now, he never will. He seems to be treating your love lightly and for such a long time, he still doesn't reciprocate and instead, giving you cold and blunt replies... how hurt can that be? Loving someone without him reciprocating is so damn hurtful, yet now you still have to go through the coldness he's giving you... I believe that's so unfair to you.

The used-to-be-close-pals relationship is gone.. and you have to accept it and move on. He doesn't show any appreciation, so why care? I despise guys who don't appreciate us women at all. If they don't like us, then fine, so be it. But they have no rights at all to throw crude remarks at us or even to "lead us on" be it intentionally or unintentionally.