| Quote: | | | Originally Posted by simplepris | | | |
| i tried giving in all the time.. but the guys nv appreciate dat.. and ironically, i could still be accused of not giving them freedom. kaoz, if i dun give them freedom, how could they meet other gers ar?? but well.. i guess, just the fact that they have me as gf is considered lack of freedom bah..?
eventually i realise.. to maintain a relationship.. both parties must give in.. afterall it takes 2 hands to clap. even if 1 party is willing to give in all the way forever.. i dun think the relationship will go on for long.
when 1 party is not willing to put in effort.. it simply means he/she does not treasure his/her partner.. (in fact he/she will love his/her partner lesser and lesser..) so i think.. no point giving in 100% forever and hope that ur partner will finally realise how good u r to him/her.. cos he/she will probably realised that only AFTER u r gone.. | |
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very very true...
recently just left my gf cos of this reason... haha...
the age old phrase of "not treasuring until it has left"
but what if he/she decides to change, would u believe and go back?
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