| Quote: | | | Originally Posted by enDlessly | | | |
| Well Kotoko, here's what I've got to say.
You said that he asked your friend whether you are interested in another guy and you felt insulted as you know you are faithful and does not change target easily, whereas through his questioning, you felt that he thinks about you in a -ve way.
The thing is, it's always good to stay calm and think about the reasons why he questioned that. Is it because of the way you react/treated him lately that makes him feel that way, or is it because of rumours, etc? Perhaps you should confront to him and ask him why he asked that, and why he is so concern about it when he doesn't reciprocate when you confessed to him in the first place? Ask him if he doesn't like you in any ways, then why must he care if you are interested in another guy? Ask him questions to clear your doubts and insecurities. This helps to prevent unnecessary misunderstanding especially when the both of you are still "friends".
Since you yourself "believes" in rumours as you said that many have talked about him and another girl, then there is no reason for you to get too upset when he asked your good friend about your "change-of-target". He might have heard of some rumours and that's why he is curious?
There are a whole lot of possibilities to your current situation. I suggest that you should ask him directly and not just go right infront of him and shut him by telling him not to ask anymore stupid questions. This will result in a very -ve way. Who knows he likes you, but because of what you warned, he became afraid and dare not try to understand you anymore?
Ask him, ask him!
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dun tink he is interested in me. what i am very lost abt is that he mentioned that he
"cant be bothered" abt what happen to me when i confessed to him face-to-face. so, why is he so
bothered abt who i like now? perhaps, he is happy that i have a changed of heart. i dunno. but what really made me so upset is that he treats my love like such a cheap thing. like i am someone who will give away her love easily.
and we are friends... friends as in, hi-bye friends, no longer the close pals we were in the past.
